{"id":10279,"date":"2016-07-19T07:08:52","date_gmt":"2016-07-19T11:08:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=10279"},"modified":"2016-07-20T06:51:35","modified_gmt":"2016-07-20T10:51:35","slug":"a-year-missing-our-friend-jeannie-elliff-remembering","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=10279","title":{"rendered":"A Year Missing Our Friend Jeannie Elliff &#8211; Remembering"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4181\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Jeannie Elliff\" width=\"2652\" height=\"1452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff.jpg 2652w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff-300x164.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff-1024x561.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2652px) 100vw, 2652px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This week marks the one-year anniversary of the Homegoing of our dear friend, Jeannie Elliff. She died on July 20, 2015, after a long battle with breast cancer &#8211; a young 69 years old. I wrote before about her <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=4179\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>. Remember her with me and all who knew her&#8230;and loved her.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff-6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4184\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff-6.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Jeannie Elliff 6\" width=\"800\" height=\"680\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff-6.jpg 800w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Blog-Jeannie-Elliff-6-300x255.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jeannie.elliff?fref=ts\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a><\/p>\n<p>What I also want to point you to today is her husband, Tom, and what he wrote this week about her. In his <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tomelliff.com\/the-unwanted-gift\/\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a> he writes\u00a0eloquently and lovingly of those last days before her Homegoing.<\/p>\n<p>What a year it must have been for him. Marking special days and trips he would have spent with her and those closest to them. Experiencing the many graces of God that come in the painful loneliness of losing a spouse like Jeannie. Of course, he wouldn&#8217;t probably describe these days as losing her altogether. She just arrived Home ahead of him.<\/p>\n<p>Besides his blog, I also wanted to give you a heads-up about his latest book coming out in September. You can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1619582341?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=1619582341\" target=\"_blank\">pre-order<\/a> through Amazon.com and others. In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1619582341?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=1619582341\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Unwanted Gift<\/em><\/a>, Tom reflects on the relentless cancer Jeannie experienced (and he, with her). Then, in the book, he expands it to any personal trial we might be having, and how God can penetrate and infuse that hard place with His great grace and strength.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Blog-The-Unwanted-Gift-by-Tom-Elliff-clcpublications.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-10284\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Blog-The-Unwanted-Gift-by-Tom-Elliff-clcpublications.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - The Unwanted Gift by Tom Elliff - clcpublications\" width=\"1492\" height=\"2068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Blog-The-Unwanted-Gift-by-Tom-Elliff-clcpublications.jpg 1492w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Blog-The-Unwanted-Gift-by-Tom-Elliff-clcpublications-216x300.jpg 216w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Blog-The-Unwanted-Gift-by-Tom-Elliff-clcpublications-768x1064.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Blog-The-Unwanted-Gift-by-Tom-Elliff-clcpublications-739x1024.jpg 739w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1492px) 100vw, 1492px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1619582341?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=1619582341\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We have read all of Tom&#8217;s books. He writes as a dear friend might, your own pastor maybe&#8230;coming alongside with encouragement and care&#8230;with humility and trust&#8230;as one who has been in a similar place&#8230;confident that God will meet us there, as He did with Tom and Jeannie.<\/p>\n<p>Postscript: Like you maybe, we have a full week with little time for much extra reading or viewing. For this reason, I wanted to point you to two easy-to-use resources to help you know and reflect on the life of Jeannie Elliff. One is a video and the other is audio (with transcript) &#8211; listen in the car or working at home &#8211; you will be blessed:<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reviveourhearts.com\/radio\/revive-our-hearts\/life-jeannie-elliffpart-1\/\" target=\"_blank\">Tribute to Jeannie Elliff<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0 Jeannie&#8217;s husband, Tom, and all four of her children spoke at her memorial service. It was the most worshipful service and loveliest tribute I\u2019ve ever seen honoring a woman who loved God and all of us so completely. The video of the service is still available on <a href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/134435405\" target=\"_blank\">Vimeo<\/a> &#8211; so beautiful. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reviveourhearts.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Revive Our Hearts Radio<\/a> also posted a two-part tribute (October 1 &amp; 2, 1015) entitled <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reviveourhearts.com\/series\/faithful-finish-life-jeannie-elliff\/\" target=\"_blank\"><u>Faithful to the Finish: The Life of Jeannie Elliff<\/u><\/a>. Nancy Leigh DeMoss moderated the tribute, using audioclips from the memorial service.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/vimeo.com\/134435405<\/p>\n<p><em>For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come. <span class=\"highl\">I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith;<\/span> in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved His appearing.<\/em> \u2013 <a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/2_timothy\/4-7.htm\" target=\"_blank\">2 Timothy 4:6-8<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>For us\u2026there is still a race to run.\u00a0 For God\u2019s glory and for those He\u2019s placed in our lives\u2026as Jeannie so marvelously showed the way.<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie-Need-You-Now.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3559\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie-Need-You-Now.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Tom &amp; Jeannie Need You Now\" width=\"766\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie-Need-You-Now.jpg 766w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie-Need-You-Now-239x300.jpg 239w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 766px) 100vw, 766px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jeannie.elliff?fref=ts\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=4179\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Jeannie Elliff &#8211; Home Now with the God She Loved So Well<\/em> &#8211; Debmillswriter<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This week marks the one-year anniversary of the Homegoing of our dear friend, Jeannie Elliff. She died on July 20, 2015, after a long battle with breast cancer &#8211; a young 69 years old. I wrote before about her here. Remember her with me and all who knew her&#8230;and loved her.Photo Credit: Facebook What I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=10279\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A Year Missing Our Friend Jeannie Elliff &#8211; Remembering<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[810,371,1241,794,147,3208,50,2556,599,33,263,337,888,887,1456,610],"tags":[51,1480,3454,3452,3455,39,3453],"class_list":["post-10279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-good-gifts","category-bookmarked-summer","category-contentment","category-faithfulness","category-family-2","category-finishing-strong","category-god","category-grief-and-loss","category-heaven","category-inspired","category-lives-full-of-god","category-marriage-2","category-memories","category-remembering","category-steadfast-love","category-thanksgiving-or-gratefulness","tag-faithful","tag-jeannie-elliff","tag-memorial-service","tag-nancy-leigh-demoss","tag-revive-our-hearts-radio","tag-tom-elliff","tag-tribute"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-2FN","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10279"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10279\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10296,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10279\/revisions\/10296"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}