{"id":11526,"date":"2016-10-07T22:26:44","date_gmt":"2016-10-08T02:26:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=11526"},"modified":"2016-10-07T22:26:44","modified_gmt":"2016-10-08T02:26:44","slug":"5-friday-faves-hurricane-matthew-engaging-older-adults-life-after-downton-leading-change-and-a-fall-evening","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=11526","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves &#8211; Hurricane Matthew, Engaging Older Adults, Life After Downton, Leading Change, and a Fall Evening"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11080\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Friday Faves 006 (2)\" width=\"3996\" height=\"2540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg 3996w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-300x191.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-768x488.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-1024x651.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3996px) 100vw, 3996px\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s Friday, and tomorrow Hurricane Matthew is supposed to move into Virginia. Wind and rain. Hopefully we won&#8217;t lose power, but over a million folks in Florida did, so we wait and see.<\/p>\n<p>Here are my favorite finds of this week. Two are actually blogs by the same writer, <a href=\"http:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Carey Nieuwhof<\/a>. He is a wise leader and gives excellent counsel to those of us who also want to lead well.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Hurricane Matthew &#8211; <\/strong>The Caribbean and Florida have been hit hard by this week&#8217;s hurricane. A Category 4 storm through the Caribbean and now Category 3, passing through Florida and into Georgia tonight. Hundreds of deaths and the storm devastation is massive. I am so thankful for disaster response agencies who take definitive action quickly in times like this. <a href=\"https:\/\/gobgr.org\/news\/news_detail\/hurricane-update-hurricane-matthew-has-now-passed\" target=\"_blank\">Baptist Global Response (BGR) <\/a>is that kind of organization, working with local partners to help in the life-saving areas of clean water, food security, shelter and supplies and general health of the peoples most hard-hit. Because of the work of other NGO&#8217;s already in Haiti, BGR is targeting its disaster relief efforts on Cuba.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-commondreams.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11587\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-commondreams.jpg\" alt=\"blog-hurricane-matthew-commondreams\" width=\"955\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-commondreams.jpg 955w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-commondreams-300x157.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-commondreams-768x402.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 955px) 100vw, 955px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-wtvr.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11589\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-wtvr.jpg\" alt=\"blog-hurricane-matthew-wtvr\" width=\"770\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-wtvr.jpg 770w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-wtvr-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Hurricane-Matthew-wtvr-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.commondreams.org\/views\/2016\/10\/05\/hurricane-matthew-haiti-looking-beyond-disaster-narrative\" target=\"_blank\">Common Dreams; <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/wtvr.com\/2016\/10\/07\/hurricane-matthew-haiti-death-toll\/\" target=\"_blank\">WTVR<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>2) Engaging Older Adults<\/strong> &#8211; Carey Nieuwhof posted a helpful 5 points list on engaging older adults. <a href=\"http:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/2016\/09\/shut-down-the-bus-tours-what-older-church-members-should-be-doing\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Shut Down the Bus Tours: What Older Church Members Should Really Be Doing<\/em><\/a><em>. <\/em>This post could just as easily been written any group of older adults who could be a tremendous resource if engaged&#8230;otherwise they are going to just keep getting on those buses.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Senior-Citizens-Bus-Tours-angeltour.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11582\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Senior-Citizens-Bus-Tours-angeltour.jpg\" alt=\"blog-senior-citizens-bus-tours-angeltour\" width=\"610\" height=\"361\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Senior-Citizens-Bus-Tours-angeltour.jpg 610w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Senior-Citizens-Bus-Tours-angeltour-300x178.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 610px) 100vw, 610px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/angeltour.com\/casinos\/casino-rama\/\" target=\"_blank\">AngelTour<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not that older adults don&#8217;t deserve vacations after so many years in the work force and serving in their churches and families. Still, Nieuwhof makes a serious case for mobilizing seniors back into service where they are needed to mentor, model, guide, and cast vision for the next generations. The Fall Leaf bus tours are upon us, but we also need these valuable men and women among us as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Life After Downton &#8211; What to Watch Now &#8211; <\/strong>I do miss<a href=\"http:\/\/www.pbs.org\/wgbh\/masterpiece\/downtonabbey\/\" target=\"_blank\"> Downton Abbey<\/a>, but fortunately we do have other viewing options. Amazon <a href=\"http:\/\/amazonscreeningroom.tumblr.com\/post\/144517916999\/life-after-downton-what-to-watch-now-its-been\" target=\"_blank\">Screening Room <\/a>lists out lovely period pieces that can scratch our itch for Downton. Two I&#8217;ve already watched are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Julian-Fellowes-Presents-Official-Trailer\/dp\/B01EN8FBG2\/ref=dvm_us_as_sr_abbey_drth\" target=\"_blank\">Doctor Thorne<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Episode-Two\/dp\/B00R6SYCNA\/ref=dvm_us_as_sr_abbey_grant\" target=\"_blank\">Grantchester<\/a>. Would love to hear some of your recommendations!<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Dr.-Thorne.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11577\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Dr.-Thorne.jpg\" alt=\"blog-dr-thorne\" width=\"500\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Dr.-Thorne.jpg 500w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Dr.-Thorne-300x135.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-After-Downton.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11578\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-After-Downton.jpg\" alt=\"blog-after-downton\" width=\"500\" height=\"276\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-After-Downton.jpg 500w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-After-Downton-300x166.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/amazonscreeningroom.tumblr.com\/post\/144517916999\/life-after-downton-what-to-watch-now-its-been\" target=\"_blank\">Screening Room<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Leading Change<\/strong> &#8211; Canadian pastor, Carey Nieuwhof, is also a writer and speaker on leadership. <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11593\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog.png\" alt=\"carey-nieuwhof-blog\" width=\"1161\" height=\"449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog.png 1161w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog-300x116.png 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog-768x297.png 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog-1024x396.png 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1161px) 100vw, 1161px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Carey Nieuwhof<\/a><\/p>\n<p>He wrote<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0985411651?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=0985411651\" target=\"_blank\"> <em>Leading Change Without Losing It: 5 Strategies That Can Revolutionize How You Lead Change When Facing Opposition. <\/em><\/a>In a <a href=\"http:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/2016\/10\/13-facts-about-opposition-to-change-too-many-leaders-miss\/\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a> this week, he takes from his book, focusing on how to lead through change in the face of opposition. A few of his observations are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>People aren&#8217;t opposed to change nearly as much as they are opposed to change they didn&#8217;t think of.<\/li>\n<li>Usually no more than 10% of the people you lead are opposed to change.<\/li>\n<li>Fear of opposition derails more leaders than actual opposition.<\/li>\n<li>Buy-in happens most fully when people understand why, rather than what or how.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>5) Firepit on a Fall Evening with S&#8217;Mores<\/strong> &#8211; This week marks the true arrival of Fall here with temperatures dropping and leaves just beginning to turn colors. We had our first marshmallow roast on an outdoor fire. Making S&#8217;mores &#8211; that camping treat of graham crackers, Hershey&#8217;s chocolate bars, and melted marshmallows. Thus marking the start of my favorite season. Lots of pics to follow of brilliant Fall leaves and fun times outside without the heat of summer.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Smores-and-a-firepit.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11565\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Smores-and-a-firepit.jpg\" alt=\"blog-smores-and-a-firepit\" width=\"550\" height=\"365\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Smores-and-a-firepit.jpg 550w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Blog-Smores-and-a-firepit-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Be safe out there. Hope you East Coasters in the States are not too troubled by Hurricane Matthew. Have a restful weekend. Leave us your favorite finds of the week in the Comments below. Thanks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Friday, and tomorrow Hurricane Matthew is supposed to move into Virginia. Wind and rain. Hopefully we won&#8217;t lose power, but over a million folks in Florida did, so we wait and see. Here are my favorite finds of this week. Two are actually blogs by the same writer, Carey Nieuwhof. He is a wise &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=11526\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">5 Friday Faves &#8211; Hurricane Matthew, Engaging Older Adults, Life After Downton, Leading Change, and a Fall Evening<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2763,810,2341,34,2126,2057,808,249,1801,440,2556,33,1262,1732,2611,870,1794,233,537],"tags":[449,3812,1909,1709,3815,3810,3816,1898,776,778,3818,1802,3166,3814,3809,298,2118,3811,1166,3817,3813],"class_list":["post-11526","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aging","category-all-good-gifts","category-baptist-global-response","category-books","category-community","category-fall","category-film","category-food-drink","category-friday-faves","category-give","category-grief-and-loss","category-inspired","category-kindness-of-strangers","category-leadership","category-love-your-neighbor","category-neighbors","category-service","category-vacations","category-volunteeringserving","tag-baptist-global-response","tag-bus-tours","tag-carey-nieuwhof","tag-change","tag-cuba","tag-diaster-relief","tag-doctor-thorne","tag-downton-abbey","tag-fall","tag-fall-leaves","tag-fire-pit","tag-friday-faves","tag-grantchester","tag-haiti","tag-hurricane-matthew","tag-leadership","tag-love-your-neighbor","tag-older-adults","tag-opposition","tag-smores","tag-senior-citizens"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-2ZU","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11526","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11526"}],"version-history":[{"count":27,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11526\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11600,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11526\/revisions\/11600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11526"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11526"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}