{"id":12473,"date":"2017-01-06T11:53:29","date_gmt":"2017-01-06T16:53:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=12473"},"modified":"2017-01-07T11:07:41","modified_gmt":"2017-01-07T16:07:41","slug":"5-friday-faves-politics-and-a-confession-beyond-the-guitar-must-see-documentaries-writing-your-story-and-the-tail-end-of-life-plus-bonuses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=12473","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves &#8211; Politics and a Confession, Beyond the Guitar, Must-See Documentaries, Writing Your Story, and the Tail End of Life &#8211; Plus Bonuses"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11080\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3996\" height=\"2540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg 3996w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-300x191.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-768x488.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-1024x651.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3996px) 100vw, 3996px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Friday Faves <\/em>&#8211; my favorite finish to a writing week. It suffers when I travel&#8230;today, I&#8217;m home. Lots of faves over the last several weeks went without my pushing them forward to you. I&#8217;ve added some bonuses to this one to pull in a few more.<\/p>\n<p>Hope you are doing well in this first week of the New Year. I wrote about <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=12489#comment-108563\" target=\"_blank\">making resolutions and experiencing real change<\/a> earlier. New resolve is something as welcome as each new year. It helps me, for sure&#8230;no matter how successful, I am energized by resolution. Glad for new beginnings.<\/p>\n<p>Here are this week&#8217;s 5 and a handful of bonuses:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Politics and a Confession &#8211; <\/strong>Whatever your political bent, we are in a new era in the US. The presidential inauguration is fast-approaching, and President-elect Trump will become the next POTUS. I have enjoyed reading the pundits on their take on the <em>new normal<\/em>. Two of my favorite finds this week are from very different: pieces by New York Times writer <a href=\"http:\/\/mobile.nytimes.com\/2016\/12\/31\/opinion\/sunday\/confessions-of-a-columnist.html\" target=\"_blank\">Ross Douthat<\/a> and former Speaker of the House <a href=\"http:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/opinion\/2016\/12\/30\/newt-gingrich-trumpism-explained.html\" target=\"_blank\">Newt Gingrich<\/a>. From\u00a0opposing sides, their\u00a0articles (with Gingrich, it was a speech delivered after the 2016 Presidential election)\u00a0are enlightening and the stuff that will help us move forward and cross aisles toward a nation for all Americans.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Confessions-of-a-Columnist-NYTimes.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12516\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Confessions-of-a-Columnist-NYTimes.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Confessions-of-a-Columnist-NYTimes.jpg 600w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Confessions-of-a-Columnist-NYTimes-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/mobile.nytimes.com\/2016\/12\/31\/opinion\/sunday\/confessions-of-a-columnist.html\" target=\"_blank\">Joshua Lott, New York Times<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hope you take the time to read them&#8230;would love to hear your take on them (Comment below). Also Gingrich refers his audience to an <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/incerto\/the-intellectual-yet-idiot-13211e2d0577#.i4dbk4x15\" target=\"_blank\">article<\/a> by Nassim Nicholas Taleb. In it, Taleb describes the <em>Intellectual Yet Idiot &#8211; &#8220;the inner circle of no-skin-in-the-game policymaking &#8216;clerks&#8217; and journalists-insiders, that class of paternalistic semi-intellectual experts with some Ivy league, Oxford-Cambridge, or similar label-driven education who are telling the rest of us 1) what to do, 2) what to eat, 3) how to speak, 4) how to think\u2026 and 5) who to vote for&#8230;<span class=\"markup--quote markup--p-quote is-other\" data-creator-ids=\"anon\">The IYI pathologizes others for doing things he doesn\u2019t understand without ever realizing it is <em class=\"markup--em markup--p-em\">his<\/em> understanding that may be limited.&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I felt so vindicated in Taleb&#8217;s article &#8211;\u00a0probably not an intellectual, hopefully not an idiot.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Beyond the Guitar &#8211; <\/strong>When Nathan&#8217;s Facebook hits on his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/beyondtheguitar\/videos\/vb.508414035986106\/664668847027290\/?type=2&amp;theater\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Star Wars Medley<\/em> <\/a>passed 1.3 millions, I was like, &#8220;What?!&#8221; Not because I don&#8217;t complete agree with the beauty of these themes when arranged for classical guitar&#8230;but because of that whole social media phenomenon. Wild! Anyway, here&#8217;s his latest arrangement of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=nyvJsotXqK4\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Princess Leia&#8217;s Theme<\/em><\/a> &#8211; as a tribute to Carrie Fisher:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Princess Leia&#039;s Theme - Classical Guitar Tribute\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nyvJsotXqK4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Must-See Documentaries <\/strong>&#8211; Documentaries have neveer been high my watch-list, but this <a href=\"http:\/\/kk.org\/mt-files\/books-mt\/tf3.2-registered.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">list<\/a> was intriguing to me. <em>200\u00a0 Documentaries You Must See Before You Die<\/em>. My favorite documentary production group is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fourth-line.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Fourth Line<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-l40S5e90KY\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Bono &amp; Eugene Peterson: The Psalms<\/em><\/a> is my favorite film from that company&#8230;not on the list of 200 (this time around). After reading the list and making notes to self on what to watch, I&#8217;ve determined to come up with my own short-list of must-see&#8217;s (stay tuned for that). Any recommendations?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/BLog-True-Films-Documentaries-Coffee-and-celluloid.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12523\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/BLog-True-Films-Documentaries-Coffee-and-celluloid.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"381\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/BLog-True-Films-Documentaries-Coffee-and-celluloid.jpg 250w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/BLog-True-Films-Documentaries-Coffee-and-celluloid-197x300.jpg 197w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/coffeeandcelluloid.com\/2008\/01\/200-docs-to-see-before-you-die-become-an-expert-interviewer-and-more-new-year-coffee-break\/\" target=\"_blank\">Coffee and Celluloid<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Writing Your Story <\/strong>&#8211; A dear friend of mine writes biographies &#8211; not for publication, necessarily,\u00a0but for her and her family&#8217;s own pleasure. Lee Taylor-Wimett, twice-widowed, has written her husband&#8217;s stories and her parents&#8217; stories. She has also written her own story&#8230;thus far. I had the joy of reading her story when she shared it with me &#8211; a simply bound volume of real life. She has, for years, encouraged me to write&#8230;to write about my own parents&#8230;and maybe, one day, to write my story. I have begun that process &#8211; writing about my mom and dad&#8230;and keeping up with bits of my own life. Memory is a precious thing and not to be taken for granted.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Write-well-edit-often-Flickr-Susan-Statham.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12524\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Write-well-edit-often-Flickr-Susan-Statham.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"696\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Write-well-edit-often-Flickr-Susan-Statham.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Write-well-edit-often-Flickr-Susan-Statham-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Write-well-edit-often-Flickr-Susan-Statham-768x522.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/pictoquotes\/14737883097\" target=\"_blank\">Flickr<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In this throw-away culture, I have boxes of bits of our lives &#8211; growing up in Georgia, having babies in Tennessee, moving\u00a0around Africa, and now &#8220;empty-nesting&#8221;, figuring out\u00a0this life with sweet aging parents, adult children with children&#8230;and work in a very different season. Whether any of my children or grandchildren read the story (and I know some will), I want to document this life&#8230;this amazing life God has given us.<\/p>\n<p>Steve Anderson of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.familysearch.org\" target=\"_blank\">Family Search<\/a>\u00a0has made a quick assist in this process with <a href=\"https:\/\/familysearch.org\/blog\/en\/52-questions-52-weeks\/\" target=\"_blank\">52 Questions in 52 Weeks: Writing Your Life Story<\/a>. This is a good week to get started.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-52-Stories-Family-Search.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12540\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-52-Stories-Family-Search.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1700\" height=\"2200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-52-Stories-Family-Search.jpg 1700w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-52-Stories-Family-Search-232x300.jpg 232w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-52-Stories-Family-Search-768x994.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-52-Stories-Family-Search-791x1024.jpg 791w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1700px) 100vw, 1700px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/familysearch.org\/blog\/en\/52-questions-52-weeks\/\" target=\"_blank\">Family Search<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>5) The Tail End of Life<\/strong> &#8211; Tim Urban and Andrew Finn of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.waitbutwhy.com\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Wait But Why<\/em><\/a> make charts and graphs that put all kinds of information in a visual form. As a visual learner, I love that. This <a href=\"http:\/\/waitbutwhy.com\/2015\/12\/the-tail-end.html\" target=\"_blank\">one<\/a> is by Tim Urban who helps us look at the human lifespan in a lot of meaningful ways &#8211; how many Red Sox games or pizzas or presidential elections we might have left&#8230;and more.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-The-Tail-End-of-Life-Wait-But-Why.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12525\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-The-Tail-End-of-Life-Wait-But-Why.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1152\" height=\"1091\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-The-Tail-End-of-Life-Wait-But-Why.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-The-Tail-End-of-Life-Wait-But-Why-300x284.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-The-Tail-End-of-Life-Wait-But-Why-768x727.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-The-Tail-End-of-Life-Wait-But-Why-1024x970.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1152px) 100vw, 1152px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/waitbutwhy.com\/2015\/12\/the-tail-end.html\" target=\"_blank\">Wait But Why<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Urban&#8217;s observation on time left with parents was poignant [and for my children &#8211; this is even more\u00a0telling for us and our own remaining parents,\u00a0 \u00a0as for you]:<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been thinking about my parents, who are in their mid-60s. <em>During\u00a0my first 18 years, I spent some time with my parents during\u00a0at least 90% of my days. But since heading off to college and then later moving out of Boston,\u00a0I\u2019ve probably seen them an average of only five times a year each, for an average of maybe two days each time. 10 days a year.\u00a0About 3% of the days I spent with them each year of my childhood.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Being in their mid-60s, let\u2019s continue to be super optimistic and say I\u2019m one of the incredibly lucky people to have both parents alive into my 60s. That would give us about 30 more years of coexistence. If the ten days a year thing holds, that\u2019s 300 days left to hang with mom and dad. Less time than I spent with them in any one\u00a0of my 18 childhood years.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>When you look at that reality, you realize that despite not being at the end of your life, you may very well be nearing the end of your time with some of the most important people in your life. If I lay out the total days I\u2019ll ever spend with each of my parents\u2014assuming I\u2019m as lucky as can be\u2014this becomes starkly clear:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It turns out\u00a0that when I graduated from high school, I had already used up 93% of my in-person parent time.<\/em> I\u2019m now enjoying the last <em>5% of that time. We\u2019re in the tail end.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>So what do we do with this information? I see three takeaways here:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>1) Living in the same place as the people you love matters.\u00a0<\/strong>I probably have 10X the time left with the people who live in my city as I do with the people who live somewhere else.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>2) Priorities matter.\u00a0<\/strong>Your remaining face\u00a0time with any person depends largely on where that person falls on your list of life priorities. Make sure this list is set by you\u2014not by unconscious inertia.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>3) Quality time matters.\u00a0<\/strong>If you\u2019re in your last 10% of time with someone you love, keep that fact in the front of your mind when you\u2019re with them and treat that time as\u00a0what it actually is: precious.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Thanks, Tim Urban! I&#8217;m calling my Mom-in-law right now. Have a great weekend, y&#8217;all. Be safe!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bonuses<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>New Book<\/strong> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Bellum-Academicus-Academy-Kevin-Prewett-ebook\/dp\/B01NH0MALF\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1483713323&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=Bellum+Academicus\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Bellum Academicus: War Academy<\/em><\/a> by Kevin Prewett &#8211; free today on Amazon (Kindle version). Great sci-fi read with lots of suspense &#8211; fun cross-generational read and read-aloud.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Bellum-Academicus-War-Academy-Kevin-Prewett.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12532\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Bellum-Academicus-War-Academy-Kevin-Prewett.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"313\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Bellum-Academicus-War-Academy-Kevin-Prewett.jpg 313w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Bellum-Academicus-War-Academy-Kevin-Prewett-188x300.jpg 188w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 313px) 100vw, 313px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<strong><em>Sherlock<\/em> (Season 4) on Masterpiece Theater &#8211;\u00a0<\/strong>I love this mini-series. 3 episodes. Available on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pbs.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">PBS<\/a>.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Sherlock-pbs.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12526\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Sherlock-pbs.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"950\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Sherlock-pbs.jpg 950w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Sherlock-pbs-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Sherlock-pbs-768x433.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 950px) 100vw, 950px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pbs.org\/wgbh\/masterpiece\/programs\/series\/sherlock-s4\/\" target=\"_blank\">PBS<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pbs.org\/video\/2365922925\/\" target=\"_blank\">First Episode: <em>The Six Thatchers<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>A Garage <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ValaAfshar\/status\/815583632962318336\/photo\/1\" target=\"_blank\">the place<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.hp.com\/country\/us\/en\/welcome.html\" target=\"_blank\">Hewlett-Packard<\/a> got started&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Vala-Afshar-Twitter-Jan-1-2017-Garage.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-12476\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Vala-Afshar-Twitter-Jan-1-2017-Garage.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Vala-Afshar-Twitter-Jan-1-2017-Garage.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Vala-Afshar-Twitter-Jan-1-2017-Garage-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Vala-Afshar-Twitter-Jan-1-2017-Garage-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Blog-Vala-Afshar-Twitter-Jan-1-2017-Garage-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ValaAfshar\/status\/815583632962318336\/photo\/1\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tolkien Quote from <em>The Hobbit<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Some believe it is only great power that can hold evil in check, but that is not what I have found. It is the small everyday deeds of ordinary folk that keep the darkness at bay. Small acts of kindness and love. Why Bilbo Baggins? Perhaps because I am afraid, and he gives me courage.&#8221;<\/em> &#8211; J. R. R. Tolkien, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0345538374?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=0345538374\" target=\"_blank\">The Hobbit<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friday Faves &#8211; my favorite finish to a writing week. It suffers when I travel&#8230;today, I&#8217;m home. Lots of faves over the last several weeks went without my pushing them forward to you. I&#8217;ve added some bonuses to this one to pull in a few more. 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