{"id":14264,"date":"2017-05-05T02:02:31","date_gmt":"2017-05-05T06:02:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=14264"},"modified":"2017-05-05T10:24:36","modified_gmt":"2017-05-05T14:24:36","slug":"5-friday-faves-adoption-the-last-of-the-mohicans-being-single-craveability-and-honoring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=14264","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves &#8211; Adoption, The Last of the Mohicans, Being Single, Craveability, and Honoring"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14251\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3996\" height=\"2540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg 3996w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-300x191.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-768x488.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-1024x651.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3996px) 100vw, 3996px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Another Friday&#8230;they come so fast. Today, I am not in my usual spot but didn&#8217;t want to miss sharing this week&#8217;s favorite finds. Enjoy&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Adoption<\/strong> &#8211; I don&#8217;t hear the phrase much anymore, but in my child-bearing years, when asked what a couple wanted (boy or girl), the response was often, &#8220;I don&#8217;t care&#8230;just as long as it&#8217;s healthy.&#8221; <strong>A wise older friend told me one time that God gives life and every child is perfect in His eyes.<\/strong> One population we see less of in our country these days is people with Down Syndrome. <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Down-Syndrome.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14353\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Down-Syndrome.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Down-Syndrome.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Down-Syndrome-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Down-Syndrome-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/richjohnsonphoto\/6256016430\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Flickr<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Of of the genetic tests done\u00a0during pregnancy, one is to rule out Down Syndrome in the fetus. If the parents have objections to keeping a baby with Down Syndrome, abortion is an option to some&#8230;as is adoption. Raising a child with health or developmental issues is challenging. We adopted such a child and thrill to see how he continues to meet\u00a0his challenges&#8230;and to bless all around. We did not adopt a child with Down&#8217;s but we have friends who did. The videos below are a beautiful sampling of this population of perfect children and adults.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=5Dffn1lbNyo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Loving Choice of Pursuing Down Syndrome Adoption<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=aV6Av4WdCOc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Girl Tells the World that Down Syndrome Is &#8216;Not Scary&#8217;<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=kNMJaXuFuWQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Not Special Needs<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Ju-q4OnBtNU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dear Future Mom<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>2) The Last of the Mohicans<\/strong> &#8211; To be honest, I have never been able to watch this painful and beautiful film all the way through. Its theme (originally composed by Dougie Maclean and arranged for this film by Trevor Jones) is exquisite. Listen <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=uzMx60ea_gI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a> on YouTube with a composite of scenes from the movie. When <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beyondtheguitar.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nathan <\/a>arranged this grand orchestral piece\u00a0(&#8220;Promentory&#8221;) for classical guitar, I knew it would have to be extraordinary. See what you think. Listen <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=oNP_DZRotpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"THE LAST OF THE MOHICANS: Promentory - Classical Guitar Cover\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oNP_DZRotpg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=kNMJaXuFuWQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube Video &#8211; <em>The Last of the Mohicans<\/em> &#8211; Promontory &#8211; Classical Guitar &#8211; Beyond the Guitar<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) On Being Single<\/strong> &#8211; The whole dating scene in my 20s was something I pulled out of long before marrying. It wasn&#8217;t pretty. By the time I entered my 30s, life was filled with great friends, strong family relationships, challenging work, and serving in church and community. Loneliness crept in at times, but it still does even after marrying later in life. These days I am privileged to\u00a0enjoy the friendship of several women (and a few men) who are single. Do some of them want to married? Yes, but not all. When I saw the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=irfd74z52Cw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">video<\/a> below, it resonated &#8211;\u00a0how society can mis-communicate the great value of these women and men&#8230;I never want to do the same.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"SK-II: Marriage Market Takeover (Please turn on subtitle)\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/irfd74z52Cw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;&#8216;Leftover women&#8217; are outstanding. &#8216;Leftover men&#8217; should try harder.&#8221;<\/strong> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=irfd74z52Cw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Marriage Market Takeover<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/gracefortheroad.com\/2017\/04\/10\/guarding-single-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>3 Ways to Guard the Single Women In Your Life<\/em> &#8211; Grace Thornton<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/articles\/invite-someone-single-to-dinner\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Invite Someone Single To Dinner<\/em> &#8211; Jasmine Holmes &#8211; Desiring God<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"p\"><br \/>\n<\/span><strong>4) Craveability\u00a0<\/strong>&#8211; A few years back, I took myself off of sugar. For over a year, I just refused to eat it (desserts, snacks, etc.). It was a healthy choice for me at the time. I lost a lot of weight and stopped craving sugar. Gradually, as with many lifestyle changes, I went back mostly to my old ways (still not eating\u00a0chocolate or doughnuts &#8211; two trigger foods). I watched an interesting YouTube video this week on crave ability &#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=N7Ty8HoIEEg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Michael Pollan on Cooking<\/a>. In it, Pollan compared\u00a0the nutritive value of food cooked by corporations vs.\u00a0that cooked by\u00a0humans. Now, corporations (restaurants, food processing companies, etc) don&#8217;t really &#8220;cook&#8221;.\u00a0 His premise though was compelling. When we cook, we control how much<strong> sugar, salt, and fats<\/strong> we add to food. When we buy food already prepared commercially, the craveability factor is at work. Foods we return to buy again and again have been developed to tap into our cravings.<\/p>\n<p>My husband was on a work trip to California this past week. A much-loved fast-food restaurant was on the list of eateries. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.in-n-out.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">In-N-Out Burger<\/a>. He and his colleague even ate there twice one day. Now, the food must be pretty special, but it speaks to Pollan&#8217;s observation about how we eat when driven by cravings. If we were eating at home, we have French fries rarely. Yet, eating out (for lunch each day, for instance), we might have fries more often.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/French-Fries.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14345\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/French-Fries.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/French-Fries.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/French-Fries-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/French-Fries-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/food-french-fries-fries-catsup-115740\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Marco Fischer, Pexels<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We in the US have a fair amount of food weirdness in our striving to eat healthy or, on the flip-side, in our indulging of cravings. Considering what is behind our food preferences, even our addictions, might help us make wiser choices in what we eat &#8211; especially related to sugar, salt, and fats.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=lVyo712BBRk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube Video &#8211; <em>Michael Pollan: &#8220;Cooked: A Natural History of Transformation&#8221;<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>5)\u00a0Honoring &#8211;<\/strong>\u00a0Respect and honor are two very different actions and experiences. I&#8217;ve heard people say, &#8220;I just don&#8217;t respect him\/her.&#8221; or &#8220;He\/she doesn&#8217;t deserve my respect.&#8221;<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>There<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>can be such derision or contempt in\u00a0those statements, they also seem to communicate &#8220;can&#8217;t&#8221; and &#8220;never will&#8221;.<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Honor is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gotquestions.org\/Bible-honor.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">defined<\/a> as &#8220;valuing or esteeming highly.&#8221;<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>We live in a culture that defaults to valuing self over anyone else&#8230;we have to fight against this strong pull to elevate ourselves over even those we say we love the most. In one of the Apostle Paul&#8217;s letters, he writes:\u00a0<em>Love one another with brotherly affection. <strong>Outdo one another in showing honor<\/strong><\/em><strong>.<\/strong> (<a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/romans\/12-10.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Romans 12:10<\/a>) Whether someone deserves honoring or not is of no consequence. <strong>We choose to honor others.<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Honor.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14347\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Honor.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"610\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Honor.jpg 625w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Honor-300x293.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 625px) 100vw, 625px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/auyeungs\/love-7-love-one-another\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pinterest<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Do we choose to honor others in our every word and deed? Think about the <a href=\"https:\/\/georgesjournal.net\/2010\/05\/29\/what-are-the-\u201cidle\u201d-words-referred-to-in-matthew-1236\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">trash talk<\/a> we can so easily fall into in relationships. It seems harmless enough but it sets us up to follow suit with dishonoring actions and attitudes. <strong>My hope is to be a person you can trust to keep your name safe on my lips.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In our current political climate and knee-jerk one-upmanship in social and work circles&#8230;what if? <strong>What if we tried to &#8220;outdo one another in showing honor&#8221;?<\/strong> How would that change our homes, workplaces, world? How do we teach that sort of valuing to our children? How do we re-awaken our hearts to it as adults? I would love to hear your thoughts (in Comments below).<\/p>\n<p>Well, those were my favorite finds this week. How about yours? Please share any of those in the Comments. Have a safe and refreshing weekend.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bonuses:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quote about Prayer:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The greatest thing we can do for one another is to pray. Prayer is striking the winning blow at the concealed enemy; our service is gathering up the results.&#8221; Corrie ten Boom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/087508947X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=087508947X\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Not Good If Detached<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Praying-Corrie-Ten-Boom-AZ-Quotes.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14297\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Praying-Corrie-Ten-Boom-AZ-Quotes.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"850\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Praying-Corrie-Ten-Boom-AZ-Quotes.jpg 850w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Praying-Corrie-Ten-Boom-AZ-Quotes-300x141.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Praying-Corrie-Ten-Boom-AZ-Quotes-768x361.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/author\/1659-Corrie_Ten_Boom\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">AZ Quotes<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.inc.com\/marcel-schwantes\/15-companies-reveal-what-traits-they-look-for-in-candidates-for-a-remote-job.html?cid=sf01001&amp;sr_share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Looking for a Remote Job? 15 Companies Reveal What They Look for in Remote Employees<\/a><strong>\u00a0&#8211; <\/strong>Marcel Schwantes<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodhousekeeping.com\/life\/parenting\/g4223\/weird-parenting-trends-100-years\/?src=arb_fb_d&amp;mag=ghk&amp;dom=fb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Weird Parenting Trends We&#8217;re Tried the Past 100 Years<\/em> &#8211; Good Housekeeping<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodhousekeeping.com\/home\/cleaning\/g4272\/things-its-time-to-get-rid-of\/?slide=38&amp;src=arb_fb_d&amp;mag=ghk&amp;dom=fb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Things It&#8217;s Time to Get Rid Of<\/em> &#8211; Good Housekeeping<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another Friday&#8230;they come so fast. Today, I am not in my usual spot but didn&#8217;t want to miss sharing this week&#8217;s favorite finds. Enjoy&#8230; 1) Adoption &#8211; I don&#8217;t hear the phrase much anymore, but in my child-bearing years, when asked what a couple wanted (boy or girl), the response was often, &#8220;I don&#8217;t care&#8230;just &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=14264\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">5 Friday Faves &#8211; Adoption, The Last of the Mohicans, Being Single, Craveability, and Honoring<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1868,1264,1869,690,1704,2126,1705,1618,3395,147,808,249,1801,1265,50,2547,3394,33,932,795,2611,337,432,31,761,789],"tags":[1870,216,4646,2548,4649,4653,4641,4642,4655,4645,4643,341,2387,4650,211,4496,42,4647,4648,1136,4652,648,4651,4654,4644,4640],"class_list":["post-14264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-abortion","category-addictions","category-adoption","category-babies-children","category-communication","category-community","category-conversations","category-courage","category-disciplines","category-family-2","category-film","category-food-drink","category-friday-faves","category-friends","category-god","category-guitar","category-habits","category-inspired","category-loneliness","category-love-2","category-love-your-neighbor","category-marriage-2","category-music","category-parenting","category-redeeming-restoring","category-relationships","tag-abortion","tag-adoption","tag-being-single","tag-beyond-the-guitar","tag-cooking","tag-corrie-ten-boom","tag-craveability","tag-cravings","tag-dating","tag-down-syndrome","tag-food-addictions","tag-honor","tag-honoring","tag-in-n-out-burger","tag-love","tag-marcel-schwantes","tag-marriage","tag-marriage-market","tag-michael-pollan","tag-nathan-mills","tag-parenting-trends","tag-prayer","tag-remote-jobs","tag-singleness","tag-sugar","tag-the-last-of-the-mohicans"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-3I4","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14264","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14264"}],"version-history":[{"count":37,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14264\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14356,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14264\/revisions\/14356"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}