{"id":14371,"date":"2017-05-12T12:32:17","date_gmt":"2017-05-12T16:32:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=14371"},"modified":"2017-05-12T20:24:37","modified_gmt":"2017-05-13T00:24:37","slug":"5-friday-faves-beyond-the-guitar-recognizing-doublespeak-on-distraction-uncelebrated-moms-and-colored-glass","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=14371","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves &#8211; Beyond the Guitar, Recognizing Doublespeak, On Distraction, Uncelebrated Moms, and Colored Glass"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14251\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3996\" height=\"2540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg 3996w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-300x191.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-768x488.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-1024x651.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3996px) 100vw, 3996px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>On this quiet, rainy Friday morning, I&#8217;ve looked back on another week of days. Days that can transform our thinking as we brush shoulders with people like us and not so much. Days that introduce different ways of thinking that require us to check our own. Days that arrest us with their beauty and days that move us to\u00a0note beauty where it\u00a0seems lacking&#8230;but it isn&#8217;t. Here are five of my favorite things of this week.\u00a0Your thoughts, please?\u00a0In the Comments below.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Beyond the Guitar <\/strong>&#8211;\u00a0Over the last few months, I have\u00a0discovered a\u00a0strange dichotomy in my experience of video games and beautiful music. In my mind, those two things did not exist together. I was wrong. Not a big fan of video games, I am now drawn to the music of many. Thanks to the arrangements of classical\u00a0guitarist <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beyondtheguitar.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nathan Mills<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0His most recent arrangement and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=7pb1VkjCixU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube posting<\/a> of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/chrono.wikia.com\/wiki\/Yearnings_of_the_Wind\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Yearnings of the Wind <\/a>composed by <a href=\"http:\/\/chrono.wikia.com\/wiki\/Yasunori_Mitsuda\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Yasunori Mitsuda<\/a> is hauntingly beautiful. This song is from the music score of popular video game\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Chrono_Trigger\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Chrono Trigger: 600 AD.<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Nathan-Chrono-Trigger.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14413\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Nathan-Chrono-Trigger.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"349\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Nathan-Chrono-Trigger.jpg 620w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Nathan-Chrono-Trigger-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.patreon.com\/beyondtheguitar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Beyond the Guitar, Patreon<\/a><\/p>\n<p>His arrangement\u00a0begins almost like a\u00a0melody you would find opening a turn-of-the-century music box. Pure and lovely. Then it moves to a romantic rendering of\u00a0Mitsuda&#8217;s piece, such that you might hear in the background of a small caf\u00e9 in Italy.\u00a0\u00a0Just wow!<\/p>\n<p>Funny thing: I love this piece and have not one bit of sweet nostalgia from playing this game&#8230;as so many will have growing up with this game.<\/p>\n<p>Listen <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=7pb1VkjCixU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"CHRONO TRIGGER: 600AD - Yearnings of the Wind - Classical Guitar Cover\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7pb1VkjCixU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QlVo11Ex6gU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube Video &#8211;<em> Stop Waiting For Things To Be Perfect<\/em> &#8211; #NathanTalks &#8211; Beyond the Guitar<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Recognizing Doublespeak<\/strong> &#8211; From the time our children were small, we tried to teach them how to cut through messages that seemed true but were not. We wanted them to be critical thinkers and not take the things they heard as\u00a0fact just because they were spoken with authority from authorities. We wanted them to be able to distinguish\u00a0between manipulation and persuasion.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Doublespeak-Persuasion-Matthew-Inman-The-Oatmeal.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14407\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Doublespeak-Persuasion-Matthew-Inman-The-Oatmeal.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1199\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Doublespeak-Persuasion-Matthew-Inman-The-Oatmeal.jpg 1199w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Doublespeak-Persuasion-Matthew-Inman-The-Oatmeal-300x158.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Doublespeak-Persuasion-Matthew-Inman-The-Oatmeal-768x404.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Doublespeak-Persuasion-Matthew-Inman-The-Oatmeal-1024x538.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1199px) 100vw, 1199px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/oatmeal\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Matthew Inman, The Oatmeal<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Doublespeak is <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Doublespeak\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">defined<\/a> as <em> language that deliberately obscures, disguises, distorts, or reverses the meaning of words. Doublespeak may take the form of euphemisms (e.g., &#8220;downsizing&#8221; for layoffs), in which case it is primarily meant to make the truth sound more palatable. It may also refer to intentional ambiguity in language or to actual inversions of meaning. In such cases, doublespeak disguises the nature of the truth. Doublespeak is most closely associated with political language.<\/em> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Doublespeak\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Wikipedia<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;What is really important in the world of doublespeak is the ability to lie, whether knowingly or unconsciously, and to get away with it, and the ability to use lies and choose and shape facts selectively, blocking out those that don&#8217;t fit an agenda or program.&#8221;<\/em> &#8211; <a title=\"Edward S. Herman\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Edward_S._Herman\">Edward S. Herman<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;In our time, political speech and writing are largely the defense of the indefensible&#8230;Thus political language has to consist largely of euphemism, question-begging and sheer cloudy vagueness&#8230;the great enemy of clear language is insincerity. Whether there is a gap between one&#8217;s real and one&#8217;s declared aims, one turns as it were instinctively to long words and exhausted idioms.&#8221;<\/em> &#8211; George Orwell in <a title=\"Politics and the English Language\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Politics_and_the_English_Language\">Politics and the English Language<\/a><\/p>\n<p>When we gather around the dinner table these days, our children are adults and have their own ideas and tolerances about doublespeak. We still talk about current events under the microscope of discerning the\u00a0doublespeak, what the intention of the speaker is, and what\u00a0bias I bring to the interpretation.<\/p>\n<p>A high-ranking government official in the US was sacked this week. For weeks prior to his dismissal, his firing was insisted upon by one political party. Immediately after his firing, the action was deemed suspicious by the same party. Whatever was warranted in that action, we struggle with determining what is true and noteworthy\u00a0in our present political climate.<\/p>\n<p>What we believe about something can be affected by cleverly crafted messaging. I really loved <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theoatmeal.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Oatmeal<\/a> comic <a href=\"http:\/\/theoatmeal.com\/comics\/believe_clean\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>You&#8217;re Not Going to Believe What I&#8217;m About to Tell You <\/em><\/a>. It&#8217;s a graphic illustration of how we might be made to change our mind on something. The key here is the compelling nature of the message and our core values. Our core values inform our worldview. Our worldview can change as we absorb a changing culture&#8217;s views. That is why revisiting such things with people you trust, whether they share your worldview or not, is important. Otherwise, we begin to believe the messages &#8211; the doublespeak &#8211; without thinking critically what we are really buying, and giving up,\u00a0in believing\/accepting the message. Something to consider&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/theoatmeal.com\/comics\/believe_clean\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>You&#8217;re Not Going to Believe What I&#8217;m About to Tell You &#8211; <\/em>Classroom Version<em> &#8211; <\/em>The Oatmeal &#8211; Comics<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scpr.org\/programs\/take-two\/2017\/05\/04\/56562\/the-psychology-behind-that-popular-new-comic-from\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>The Psychology Behind That Popular New Comic From &#8216;The Oatmeal&#8217;<\/em><\/a> &#8211; by <b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scpr.org\/about\/people\/staff\/austin-cross\">Austin Cross<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.scpr.org\/about\/people\/staff\/a-martinez\">A Mart\u00ednez<\/a> with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.scpr.org\/about\/people\/staff\/lori-galarreta\">Lori Galarreta<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/article\/235320\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Good Leaders Persuade. They Don&#8217;t Manipulate.<\/em> &#8211; Harrison Monarth<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) On Distraction &#8211; <\/strong>I struggle with distractions, always have. Long before the various diversions found online became my struggle. <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Distraction-procrastination-FLickr.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14427\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Distraction-procrastination-FLickr.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"686\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Distraction-procrastination-FLickr.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Distraction-procrastination-FLickr-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Distraction-procrastination-FLickr-768x515.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/rishibando\/4432737271\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Flickr<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This week, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/authors\/david-mathis\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">David Mathis<\/a> posted a great piece entitled <a href=\"http:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/articles\/you-can-defeat-distraction?utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=Email%20Test%202&amp;utm_content=Email%20Test%202+CID_8fc755b4ab592d4066d713c8560db3d7&amp;utm_source=Campaign%20Monitor&amp;utm_term=You%20Can%20Defeat%20Distraction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>You Can Defeat Distraction<\/em><\/a>. He talked about the importance of &#8220;setting our minds&#8221; on what matters. Where our mind is &#8220;at home&#8221; is also a factor. I want my own thoughts to return to God and the things of God. Just this week,\u00a0an ancient Scripture\u00a0verse has been on my mind:\u00a0<em>You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. (<a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/deuteronomy\/6-5.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Deuteronomy 6:5<\/a>) <\/em>This consideration follows Mathis&#8217; take on defeating distraction. If I can truly say &#8220;I love God&#8221; with how I spend my time and who and what I invest my time in, then the issue becomes a non sequitur &#8211; Distraction is checked.<\/p>\n<p>What do you think?<\/p>\n<p>If you prefer a less-spiritual take on this, check out Marcel Schwante&#8217;s article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.inc.com\/marcel-schwantes\/neuroscience-says-doing-these-activities-will-help-keep-your-brain-more-focused.html?cid=sf01001&amp;sr_share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Neuroscience Says Doing These Activities Will Help Keep Your Brain More Focused<\/em> &#8211; <\/a>he prescribes such helps as power naps, scheduled downtime, gratitude, and end-of-the-day wind-down rituals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Uncelebrated Moms<\/strong> &#8211; Mother&#8217;s Day is a holiday celebrated around the world (not on the same date but remembered still). As Mother&#8217;s Day looms here, we prepare in the US to celebrate and be celebrated &#8211; fueled by TV commercials, social media blasts, and sometimes wild expectations of our own.<\/p>\n<p>It got me thinking this week about the moms who aren&#8217;t celebrated. Let&#8217;s celebrate these moms here. I want to celebrate my youngest son&#8217;s birth mother who could have aborted him in a culture where she would have been shamed if her pregnancy became public. I celebrate the foster mother who loved him for 14 months until he came home to us (see pic).<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_0017.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14402\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_0017.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2928\" height=\"2128\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_0017.jpg 2928w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_0017-300x218.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_0017-768x558.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_0017-1024x744.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2928px) 100vw, 2928px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s celebrate the moms who aren&#8217;t in positions of being celebrated this week &#8211; those moms who miscarried; those moms who lost children to accidents, wars, or other calamity; those moms who care for children unable, by physical or mental challenge, to celebrate them; those moms whose children have walked away from them&#8230;for reasons they don&#8217;t understand.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Uncelebrated-Moms-Soldiers-Magazine.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14400\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Uncelebrated-Moms-Soldiers-Magazine.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"388\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Uncelebrated-Moms-Soldiers-Magazine.jpg 570w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Blog-Uncelebrated-Moms-Soldiers-Magazine-300x204.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 570px) 100vw, 570px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/soldiers.dodlive.mil\/2014\/09\/grief-that-never-dies\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Soldiers Magazine<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not all of us have moms who are easy to love. I did and still do in my mom-in-law. Still for our own sakes, and that of the next generation, finding something to celebrate in these moms can be so redeeming&#8230;for them&#8230;and for us.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wholewomannetwork.org\/2015\/05\/10\/remembering-honouring-the-unsung-and-uncelebrated-mothers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Remembering, Honouring Our Unsung and Uncelebrated Mothers<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=alSm_MfEL-w\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube Video &#8211; <em>Mom Crush<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Mom Crush (Little Big Town Parody)\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/alSm_MfEL-w?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Colored Glass<\/strong> &#8211; To close, I want to tell you about a joy from my childhood. My mom grew up just after the Great Depression. She knew a level of poverty I can&#8217;t begin to understand. Because of it, and maybe because of her own inclination, she surrounded us with beauty growing up. In the small house where she raised four children, she and my step-dad built open shelves across the windows in the kitchen and dining room. On this shelves she displayed mid-century whiskey decanters which she filled with colored water.\u00a0I wish I had a picture from those days&#8230;it was so beautiful to my little-girl eyes. Walking into those rooms, on waking from sleep, with the early morning sun streaming in, seeing those decanters was like looking through stained glass windows.<\/p>\n<p>Because of this, because of my mama, I have always loved colored glass.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_4296.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14392\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_4296.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2937\" height=\"2202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_4296.jpg 2937w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_4296-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_4296-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/IMG_4296-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2937px) 100vw, 2937px\" \/>&#8211;<\/a> My kitchen window<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ebay.com\/gds\/Tiara-Indiana-Glass-Company-Beginnings-History-\/10000000001773641\/g.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tiara Exclusives Glassware <\/a>&#8211; In the 70&#8217;s and 80&#8217;s, Mom became a sales agent for this glass. She sold a lot of it, and bought (or was awarded) lots which she passed on to all of us. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theglassmuseum.com\/ambertiara.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Beautiful colored glass<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Welcome to the weekend y&#8217;all. If you&#8217;ve had some favorites this week, please comment on them below.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bonuses: A Quote on The Love of God\/the Like of God, and Ducklings<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>When you are face-to-face with Love himself, you become more loving. When you are face-to-face with Kindness himself, you become more kind. When you are face-to-face with Generosity himself, you become more generous. When you are face-to-face with Hospitality himself, you become more hospitable. It&#8217;s how Jesus works. He rubs off on us. While Martha (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Luke+10%3A38-42&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Luke 10:38-42<\/a>)\u00a0is busy trying to be like Jesus, Mary spends her energy being with him. And in being with him, Mary becomes like him.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It was at Jesus&#8217; feet that Mary learned she was deeply and dearly loved. But she also learned something more. <strong>At\u00a0Jesus&#8217; feet, Mary learned that Jesus liked her. <\/strong>And when you know that you are liked&#8230;it changes everything&#8230;in Christ we are the apple of God&#8217;s eye, he takes great delight in us, he rejoices over us with singing&#8230; &#8211; Scott Sauls, <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1496400941?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=1496400941\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Befriend &#8211; Create Belonging in An Age of Judgment, Isolation, and Fear<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/Blog-Befriend-Scott-Sauls-Amazon.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13247\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/Blog-Befriend-Scott-Sauls-Amazon.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" srcset=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/Blog-Befriend-Scott-Sauls-Amazon.jpg 333w, http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/Blog-Befriend-Scott-Sauls-Amazon-200x300.jpg 200w\" alt=\"\" width=\"333\" height=\"499\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1496400941?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;creativeASIN=1496400941\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Amazon<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jukinmedia.com\/licensing\/view\/957766\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Video &#8211; Family of Ducks Jump Into Water &#8211; Jukin Media<\/a><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Ducklings Jump from Nest 50 Feet in the Air\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bDJw43BJtCE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On this quiet, rainy Friday morning, I&#8217;ve looked back on another week of days. Days that can transform our thinking as we brush shoulders with people like us and not so much. Days that introduce different ways of thinking that require us to check our own. 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