{"id":1465,"date":"2014-12-09T09:16:13","date_gmt":"2014-12-09T14:16:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=1465"},"modified":"2014-12-09T10:45:08","modified_gmt":"2014-12-09T15:45:08","slug":"toms-dad-is-going-home-on-dying-and-for-the-rest-of-us-finishing-strong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=1465","title":{"rendered":"Tom&#8217;s Dad Is Going Home&#8230;and for the Rest of Us&#8230;the Hope of Finishing Strong"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Elliff-his-dad1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1469\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Elliff-his-dad1.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Tom Elliff &amp; his dad\" width=\"720\" height=\"607\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Elliff-his-dad1.jpg 720w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Elliff-his-dad1-300x252.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>For to me, to live <i>is<\/i> Christ, and to die <i>is<\/i> gain. <span id=\"en-NKJV-29384\" class=\"text Phil-1-22\">But if <i>I<\/i> live on in the flesh, this <i>will mean<\/i> fruit from <i>my<\/i> labor; yet what I shall choose I cannot tell.\u00a0<\/span> <span id=\"en-NKJV-29385\" class=\"text Phil-1-23\">For I am hard-pressed between the two, having a desire to depart and be with Christ, <i>which is<\/i> far better.\u00a0<\/span><span id=\"en-NKJV-29386\" class=\"text Phil-1-24\"><sup class=\"versenum\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/sup><\/span>&#8211; the Apostle Paul in a letter to the Philippians; 1:21-23<\/p>\n<p>Mr. Elliff is dying&#8230;or really, finally going Home, at 97 years young.<\/p>\n<p>He is the father\/father-in-law of our dear, dear friends Tom &amp; Jeannie Elliff.<\/p>\n<p>Tom describes this as only he can&#8230;don&#8217;t miss this brief story of a beloved father and a redeemed life &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tomelliff.com\/dad-is-going-home\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Dad is Going Home.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I never met Mr. Elliff but I know him through Tom&#8217;s stories of him. I also know more about the stewardship of whatever comes our way,\u00a0again, through Tom&#8217;s stories. Not just through his stories, but through the lives of Tom and Jeannie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-JEannie-at-Christmas.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1470\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-JEannie-at-Christmas.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Tom &amp; JEannie at Christmas\" width=\"720\" height=\"435\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-JEannie-at-Christmas.jpg 720w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-JEannie-at-Christmas-300x181.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When we think of someone dear dying, we think of others living with\u00a0the prospect\u00a0more real&#8230;as with a recurrent cancer. I saw my mom go through it in such a way that every day of her 3-year battle brought glory to God. That was all she wanted.\u00a0There are\u00a0others we love going gloriously through cancer and its treatment&#8230;by God&#8217;s grace and in the joy of the Lord&#8230;and we ourselves are changed.\u00a0This is a picture of the God we love, who loves us more&#8230;this view of God in Tom &amp; Jeannie Elliff&#8217;s life (life, not lives&#8230;because &#8220;if ever two were one&#8221;,\u00a0then surely\u00a0[they].*<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1471\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Tom &amp; Jeannie\" width=\"878\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie.jpg 878w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Blog-Tom-Jeannie-274x300.jpg 274w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 878px) 100vw, 878px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nevertheless to remain in the flesh <i>is<\/i> more needful for you.\u00a0 <span id=\"en-NKJV-29387\" class=\"text Phil-1-25\">And being confident of this, I know that I shall remain and continue with you all for your progress and joy of faith,\u00a0<\/span> <span id=\"en-NKJV-29388\" class=\"text Phil-1-26\">that your rejoicing for me may be more abundant in Jesus Christ by my coming to you again.&#8221;<\/span> &#8211; the Apostle Paul again &#8211; Philippians 1:24-26<\/p>\n<p>I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. &#8211; 2 Timothy 4:7<\/p>\n<p>For us&#8230;for now&#8230;we remain&#8230;for there is still a race to be won.<\/p>\n<p>Praying for you, Tom and Jeannie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tomelliff.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Tom Elliff Website &amp; Blog<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.poemhunter.com\/anne-bradstreet\/biography\/\" target=\"_blank\">If Ever Two Were One &#8211; Puritan Poet Anne Bradstreet<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Photo Credits &#8211; Jeannie Elliff &amp; Family<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain. But if I live on in the flesh, this will mean fruit from my labor; yet what I shall choose I cannot tell.\u00a0 For I am hard-pressed between the two, having a desire to depart and be with Christ, which is far better.\u00a0\u00a0&#8211; &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=1465\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Tom&#8217;s Dad Is Going Home&#8230;and for the Rest of Us&#8230;the Hope of Finishing Strong<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[810,794,147,678,599,33,263,610,32],"tags":[848,850,264,845,846,148,268,798,744,844,175,849,847,527,39],"class_list":["post-1465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-good-gifts","category-faithfulness","category-family-2","category-friendship","category-heaven","category-inspired","category-lives-full-of-god","category-thanksgiving-or-gratefulness","category-walk-with-god","tag-a-race-to-win","tag-anne-bradstreet","tag-cancer","tag-chemotherapy","tag-courageous","tag-dad","tag-dying","tag-faithfulness-2","tag-finishing-strong","tag-going-home","tag-joy","tag-living-in-the-word","tag-to-live-is-christ","tag-tom-jeannie-elliff","tag-tom-elliff"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-nD","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1465"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1483,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465\/revisions\/1483"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}