{"id":17105,"date":"2018-01-05T17:23:08","date_gmt":"2018-01-05T22:23:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=17105"},"modified":"2018-01-05T17:37:37","modified_gmt":"2018-01-05T22:37:37","slug":"5-friday-faves-assassins-creed-on-guitar-carey-nieuwhof-on-leadership-development-snow-days-internet-discoveries-and-the-cost-of-security","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=17105","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves &#8211; Assassin&#8217;s Creed on Guitar, Carey Nieuwhof on Leadership Development, Snow Days, Internet Discoveries, and the Cost of Security"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14251\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3996\" height=\"2540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2.jpg 3996w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-300x191.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-768x488.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Blog-Friday-Faves-006-2-1024x651.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3996px) 100vw, 3996px\" \/><\/a>Snow day!!! On a Friday. Do I need to say more?<\/p>\n<p>Hope you are well, warm, and safe.<\/p>\n<p>Here are my Friday faves from this week.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Assassin&#8217;s Creed on Guitar<\/strong> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/beyondtheguitar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Guitarist Nathan Mills<\/a> has just posted <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=qLPMXKbyAVQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">his arrangement of the main theme from <em>Assassin&#8217;s Creed IV<\/em>. <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Nathan-Mills-Assassins-Creed-Black-Flag-January-5-2018.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17197\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Nathan-Mills-Assassins-Creed-Black-Flag-January-5-2018.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Nathan-Mills-Assassins-Creed-Black-Flag-January-5-2018.png 1280w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Nathan-Mills-Assassins-Creed-Black-Flag-January-5-2018-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Nathan-Mills-Assassins-Creed-Black-Flag-January-5-2018-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Nathan-Mills-Assassins-Creed-Black-Flag-January-5-2018-1024x576.png 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re like me, you might not know what that even means &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Assassin%27s_Creed_IV:_Black_Flag\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Assassin&#8217;s Creed<\/a>. It&#8217;s a popular videogame set in the Caribbean during the 18th century. Lots of swashbuckling, sword-wielding pirates, I suppose. The best part of this game for me (since I never played)? This guy playing this arrangement on this guitar:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"ASSASSIN&#039;S CREED IV: BLACK FLAG Main Theme - Classical Guitar Cover (BeyondTheGuitar)\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qLPMXKbyAVQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Follow <strong>Beyond the Guitar<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/beyondtheguitar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>. Every week, more music, just for us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Carey Nieuwhof on Leadership Development<\/strong> &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/connexuschurch.com\/about-us\/carey-nieuwhof\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Carey Nieuwhof<\/a> is a pastor, writer, podcaster, and leadership coach. His thinking on\u00a0 leadership development goes beyond the church straight into the secular workplace. He has much to offer to anyone wanting to raise up qualified leaders. His own wisdom and experience as a leader and student of leadership make him a worthy mentor. Then there are also his choices of leader interviews for his podcast. I&#8217;d like to point you to two he interviewed and then posted among his <a href=\"https:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/the-top-10-podcast-episodes-of-2017\/?utm_content=buffer70a8f&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=twitter.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Top 10 Podcasts of 2017.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>They are <a href=\"https:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/episode133\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Todd Adkins<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/episode173\/?utm_content=bufferbc951&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=twitter.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Craig Groeschel<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Adkins on intentionality: <em><strong>Leadership development requires intentionality.\u00a0<\/strong>If you think that leadership development is going to naturally happen over time, you\u2019re wrong. Usually leaders are also ambitious doers, and <strong>striking a healthy balance between doing and developing is only something that happens with intentionality<\/strong>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Adkins on building leaders from within the organization: <em><strong>Are you building people or buying them?<\/strong> If you look at your staff and realize that you bought most or all of them, then it\u2019s time to reevaluate your leadership development culture. <strong>There is a time or a place to buy staff, but a healthy leadership culture also produces leaders from within.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Groeschel on feedback: <em><strong>Create a culture where feedback is craved rather than avoided. <\/strong>The higher you rise in any form of leadership, the harder it is for people to tell you the truth. <strong>As a leader, your\u00a0posture sets the tone throughout the organization. If\u00a0you don\u2019t ask for feedback and receive it well, you\u2019re limiting your own growth and the growth of everyone working around you.<\/strong> Not only will people refrain from telling you what they think, they will also fail to hear constructive criticism for themselves.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Groeschel on delegating: <em><b>Delegating empowers other leaders in your church. <\/b>Lead pastors try to hold on to too much because of issues with trust and control. But <strong>delegating empowers other leaders and breaks down\u00a0the limitations that come with one person carrying the load<\/strong>. Overtime, pastors should give up more than they could ever think possible.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/7-ways-grow-church-attendance-increasing-engagement\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>7 Ways to Grow Church Attendance by Increasing Engagement<\/em> &#8211; Carey Nieuwhof<\/a> &#8211; There is so much wisdom here, not just about church attendance but about how to get folks engaged. With the tension of disengagement and productivity in the workplace, Nieuwhof gives sound counsel on how we can demonstrate valuing and increase engagement.<\/p>\n<table class=\"diff\" style=\"height: 5px;\" width=\"445\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11593\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1161\" height=\"449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog.png 1161w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog-300x116.png 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog-768x297.png 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Carey-Nieuwhof-Blog-1024x396.png 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1161px) 100vw, 1161px\" \/>Photo Credit: Carey Nieuwhof<\/a><\/td>\n<td class=\"diff-addedline\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/careynieuwhof.com\/5-things-every-church-leader-should-unlearn-in-2018-if-you-want-to-stay-relevant\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>5 Things Every Church Leader Should Unlearn in 2018 (if You Want to Stay Relevant)<\/em> &#8211; Carey Nieuwhof<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Snow Days &#8211; <\/strong>Love snow days. The sparkle of sun-lit snow. The profound quiet. How all the other colors around us pop against the white background. The breaking up of routine. The pot of a favorite hot on the stove. Movies, books, fires in the fireplace. Mmmmmm.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-60.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17168\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-60.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"4320\" height=\"3240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-60.jpg 4320w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-60-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-60-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-60-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4320px) 100vw, 4320px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-36.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17170\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-36.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"4320\" height=\"3240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-36.jpg 4320w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-36-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-36-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-36-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4320px) 100vw, 4320px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-56.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17171\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-56.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"4320\" height=\"3240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-56.jpg 4320w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-56-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-56-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-56-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4320px) 100vw, 4320px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-23.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17169\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-23.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"4320\" height=\"3240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-23.jpg 4320w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-23-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-23-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2018-January-4-Papas-Garden-in-Winter-23-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4320px) 100vw, 4320px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Thankful also for all those folks out there who keep working &#8211; you medical and emergency staff, you power and water company employees, you whoever you are who still get out there in the deep cold. Thank you!<\/p>\n<p>4) <strong>Internet Discoveries &#8211;<\/strong>The internet is replete with fascinating subject matter. The danger is being drawn off task by chasing rabbits that pop up during a &#8220;quick check&#8221; of Twitter, Facebook, etc. Here is one that happened to me this week and, as it happens, enriched my life (even momentarily). Photography is my hobby, so when the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.masterclass.com\/classes\/annie-leibovitz-teaches-photography\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Master Class<\/a> with<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Annie_Leibovitz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Annie Leibovitz<\/a> came up in my Facebook feed, I watched the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.masterclass.com\/classes\/annie-leibovitz-teaches-photography\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">teaser<\/a>. <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Annie-Leibovitz-Master-Class.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17182\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Annie-Leibovitz-Master-Class.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3168\" height=\"2112\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Annie-Leibovitz-Master-Class.jpg 3168w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Annie-Leibovitz-Master-Class-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Annie-Leibovitz-Master-Class-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Annie-Leibovitz-Master-Class-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3168px) 100vw, 3168px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/File:Annie_Leibovitz-SF-1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Wikimedia Commons<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the video, she talked about photographing Pulitzer Prize-winning poet <a href=\"https:\/\/www.poetryfoundation.org\/poets\/robert-penn-warren\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Robert Penn Warren<\/a>. He had cancer at the time and would later die from it. If you love poetry, maybe you know<a href=\"https:\/\/www.poemhunter.com\/robert-penn-warren\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> his work<\/a>. Or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.poemhunter.com\/rosanna-warren\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">that<\/a> of his daughter, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.poetryfoundation.org\/poets\/rosanna-warren\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rosanna Warren<\/a>. I didn&#8217;t know them until now.<\/p>\n<p>Studying some of Robert Penn Warren&#8217;s biography and reading father&#8217;s and daughter&#8217;s\u00a0 poetry was a highlight of this week&#8217;s finds.<\/p>\n<p>Poetry inspires me but I am not a student of poetry. This was a momentary, fascinating find. Have you had one of those finds this week &#8211; incidental, serendipitous? Please share with us (Comments below).<\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Cost of Security &#8211; <\/strong>Anyone who travels on airlines (especially since the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/September_11_attacks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">2001 9-11 bombings<\/a>) knows something of the cost of security. There have been too many other public attacks since then, moving us to give up personal privacy and freedom for the sake of safety and security. We have all been in these conversations; some of us even in on the decision-making related to security protocol.<\/p>\n<p>So what makes this a find of the week? This statement made around a table of friends earlier this week: <em>&#8220;Convenience and habits are the enemies of security.&#8221;<\/em> It got me to thinking about what we are willing to give up, in terms of convenience and routines, to fortify our security (and the security of others, actually). Things like passwords and keys are not easy to keep up with, but they are essential in today&#8217;s world. <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Conencience-is-enemy-of-security-slideshare.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17204\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Conencience-is-enemy-of-security-slideshare.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"638\" height=\"479\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Conencience-is-enemy-of-security-slideshare.jpg 638w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Conencience-is-enemy-of-security-slideshare-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 638px) 100vw, 638px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.slideshare.net\/KhrtWilliams\/os-x-security-basics-for-keeping-your-mac-safe-final\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Slideshare<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Routines or habits that make us more vulnerable might need changing. Like going back and forth to work the same time\/way every day. Or running alone. Or being the last one out of the building. When we have routines in our public life, we tend to become less <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=9664\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">situationally aware<\/a>. If we all do the work of assessing our own security situation and become more in tune to potential hazards, then we may avoid losing more personal freedom and privacy to other agencies given the task of keeping us safe.<\/p>\n<p>Something to think about&#8230;and I have this week. Tightening up some habits and tweaking some routines.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pcworld.com\/article\/257793\/why_convenience_is_the_enemy_of_security.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Why Convenience Is the Enemy of Security &#8211; <\/em>PC World<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=9664\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Situational Awareness &#8211; It Could Save Your Life&#8230;or Someone Else&#8217;s<\/em> &#8211; Deb Mills Writer<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hope your weekend looms happily ahead of you&#8230;with time with those you love. Blessings and Happy New Year!<\/p>\n<p>Oh&#8230;and please leave some of your own finds in the Comments below for us all to learn from you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bonuses<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Negotiating<\/strong> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.farnamstreetblog.com\/2018\/01\/chris-voss\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Art of Letting Other People Have Your Way: Negotiating Secrets From Chris Voss<\/em> &#8211; Podcast &#8211; Farnam Street Blog<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Empathy<\/strong> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/get-gift-empathy-innovate-digitally-transform-your-brian-solis\/?trk=mp-reader-card\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Get the Gift of Empathy to Innovate and Digitally Transform Your Organization &#8211;<\/em> Brian Solis<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>&#8220;True leaders don&#8217;t invest in followers; they empower others to become leaders.&#8221;<\/em> &#8211; Brian Solis<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Your Body After You Stop Smoking<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Blog-After-You-Stop-Smoking-American-Cancer-Society-WebMD.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17107\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Blog-After-You-Stop-Smoking-American-Cancer-Society-WebMD.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"643\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Blog-After-You-Stop-Smoking-American-Cancer-Society-WebMD.png 643w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Blog-After-You-Stop-Smoking-American-Cancer-Society-WebMD-201x300.png 201w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 643px) 100vw, 643px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/WebMD\/photos\/a.10150527356638482.398927.11736558481\/10156003783253482\/?type=3&amp;theater\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">WebMD Facebook page<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Shyndigz &#8211; <\/strong>a dessert restaurant (always a pleasure, not just for the sweets but the surroundings. A beautiful experience. <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Shyndigz-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17173\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Shyndigz-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1632\" height=\"1224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Shyndigz-2.jpg 1632w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Shyndigz-2-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Shyndigz-2-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Shyndigz-2-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1632px) 100vw, 1632px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shyndigz.com\/the-shyndigz-cafe\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Screenshot from Shyndigz website<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2014-September-Shyndigz-with-the-Girls-037.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17184\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2014-September-Shyndigz-with-the-Girls-037.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"4320\" height=\"3240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2014-September-Shyndigz-with-the-Girls-037.jpg 4320w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2014-September-Shyndigz-with-the-Girls-037-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2014-September-Shyndigz-with-the-Girls-037-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/2014-September-Shyndigz-with-the-Girls-037-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4320px) 100vw, 4320px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Gel Pens &#8211; <\/strong>Celebrating these <a href=\"http:\/\/www.historyofpencils.com\/writing-instruments-history\/gel-pen-history\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wonderful little inventions<\/a>. About the time our daughter moved from pencil to pen, we were living in Cairo, Egypt. In the Korba district of the city, we found a lovely little gift shop called <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/EveryMans-Bookshop-266602963810871\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">EveryMan&#8217;s<\/a>. This was the place and the season, mid-90s, that we discovered <a href=\"http:\/\/www.historyofpencils.com\/writing-instruments-history\/gel-pen-history\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">gel pens<\/a>. I was reminded of the wonder they are this week during our mid-week<a href=\"http:\/\/www.moverichmond.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> small group meeting<\/a>. We were all women in attendance with just Dave as our only guy (which was unusual). At some point, the conversation turned to gel pens (oh, we were writing <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=17133\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">New Year&#8217;s resolutions<\/a>), and we all sang their praises. Dave commented, &#8220;I feel like we wouldn&#8217;t be having this discussion if there were more guys here.&#8221; Probably&#8230;their loss, his gain to be in our mix that night.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Gel-Pens-Everymans-in-Korba-Egypt.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17178\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Gel-Pens-Everymans-in-Korba-Egypt.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1280\" height=\"856\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Gel-Pens-Everymans-in-Korba-Egypt.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Gel-Pens-Everymans-in-Korba-Egypt-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Gel-Pens-Everymans-in-Korba-Egypt-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Gel-Pens-Everymans-in-Korba-Egypt-1024x685.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/en\/pen-dlugopisy-felt-tip-327605\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pixabay<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/20-new-idea-books-read-2018-adam-grant\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Adam Grant&#8217;s Book List for 2018<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Writing-Books-Karen-Swallow-Prior.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17166\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Writing-Books-Karen-Swallow-Prior.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"765\" height=\"836\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Writing-Books-Karen-Swallow-Prior.jpg 765w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Blog-Writing-Books-Karen-Swallow-Prior-275x300.jpg 275w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 765px) 100vw, 765px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/photo.php?fbid=10104024877914748&amp;set=a.10100652529253498.2509021.55704834&amp;type=3&amp;theater\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Grant Snider, Karen Swallow Prior<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Snow day!!! On a Friday. Do I need to say more? Hope you are well, warm, and safe. Here are my Friday faves from this week. 1) Assassin&#8217;s Creed on Guitar &#8211; Guitarist Nathan Mills has just posted his arrangement of the main theme from Assassin&#8217;s Creed IV. If you&#8217;re like me, you might not &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=17105\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">5 Friday Faves &#8211; Assassin&#8217;s Creed on Guitar, Carey Nieuwhof on Leadership Development, Snow Days, Internet Discoveries, and the Cost of Security<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1740,926,1705,1148,1801,2547,3394,1732,432,1453,185,3748],"tags":[1752,5524,5521,2548,5522,5532,4491,1909,573,5529,5528,1764,1631,3193,5523,1802,5531,2381,1879,237,298,2491,5525,1136,5530,2725,5527,5526,1091,633,1675,3492,4164,1032,1906,314],"class_list":["post-17105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adam-grant","category-attending-or-focus","category-conversations","category-critical-thinking","category-friday-faves","category-guitar","category-habits","category-leadership","category-music","category-work","category-workplace-or-marketplace","category-youtube-channel","tag-adam-grant","tag-annie-leibovitz","tag-assassins-creed","tag-beyond-the-guitar","tag-black-flag","tag-book-lists","tag-brian-solis","tag-carey-nieuwhof","tag-classical-guitar","tag-convenience","tag-cost-of-security","tag-craig-groeschel","tag-empathy","tag-employees","tag-engagement","tag-friday-faves","tag-gel-pens","tag-guitar","tag-habits","tag-internet","tag-leadership","tag-leadership-development","tag-master-class","tag-nathan-mills","tag-negotiating","tag-poetry","tag-robert-penn-warren","tag-rosanna-warren","tag-routines","tag-security","tag-shyndigz","tag-situational-awareness","tag-smoking","tag-snow-days","tag-todd-adkins","tag-workplace"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-4rT","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17105"}],"version-history":[{"count":38,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17210,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17105\/revisions\/17210"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}