{"id":17458,"date":"2018-01-26T18:09:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-26T23:09:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=17458"},"modified":"2018-01-26T18:22:46","modified_gmt":"2018-01-26T23:22:46","slug":"5-friday-faves-favorite-book-of-2018-the-courage-of-rachael-denhollander-good-news-love-across-a-lifetime-and-a-hint-of-spring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=17458","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves – Favorite Book of 2018, the Courage of Rachael Denhollander, Good News, Love Across a Lifetime, and a Hint of Spring"},"content":{"rendered":"

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It’s Friday! You’re probably thinking, “Wait a minute! Where is Beyond the Guitar<\/a>?!” I know he’s on here every week, because he’s definitely one of my faves. Right? No argument. This week, Nathan is meeting up with some folks in various segments of the music industry. No video this week. You can watch his latest video here<\/a>. I did manage to have other Faves for the week…so here they are…just for you.<\/p>\n

1) Favorite Book of 2018 <\/strong>– It’s only January, but this 2016 book has already become my strong favorite for the year. It is Strong and Weak: Embracing a Life of Love, Risk, and True Flourishing<\/em> by Andy Crouch<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Crouch talks about how so much in life is both\/and not either\/or. We can find ourselves somewhere on this 2×2 chart below, depending on how much authority we have and how much vulnerability. He defines authority as “capacity for meaningful action”. Vulnerability is defined as “exposure to meaningful risk”.\u00a0 In his book, Strong and Weak, <\/em>Crouch talks, as if face-to-face, to the reader about how to move “up and to the right” to do life, flourishing. How we get there is through bringing others along with us, using our authority and vulnerability, not just for our own sake, but for that of those around us, as well. We have all known suffering, but we can hopefully avoid falling into withdrawing or exploiting. Such a good read!<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Acton Institute, Joseph Sunde<\/a><\/p>\n

Strong and Weak: Embracing a Life of Love, Risk, and True Flourishing<\/em> – Andy Crouch<\/a><\/p>\n

The Best Quotes from Strong and Weak<\/em> by Andy Crouch – Barnabas Piper<\/a><\/p>\n

Strong and Weak<\/em> Quotes – GoodReads<\/a><\/p>\n

[Playing God<\/em><\/a> by Crouch is also on my short list for starting out 2018 reading. Then, too, his The Tech-Wise Family<\/a>. Has anyone else read any of his books? Please comment and let us know. Thanks!]<\/p>\n

The Tech-Wise Family: Every Day Steps for Putting Technology in Its Proper Place<\/em> – Andy Crouch<\/a><\/p>\n

The Tech-Wise Family<\/em> – The Matt Lewis Show – Interview with Andy Crouch<\/a><\/p>\n

2) The Courage of Rachael Denhollander – <\/strong>This past week the news has been packed with the victim statements and sentencing of Larry Nassar, the US Gymnastics team doctor who molested over 155 girls in his care. I say 155 because those were the ones who gave statements prior to his sentencing. The last one who spoke was actually the first one who got heard about his abuse. See stories below. Rachael Denhollander<\/a> – you are our hero…with all those precious girls who can hopefully heal from this terrible situation.<\/p>\n

The Incredible Testimony as a Former Gymnast Confronts Her Sexual Abuser in Court (<\/em>Justin Taylor)<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Neil Blake, MLive.com<\/a><\/p>\n

How the Indy Star and Rachael Denhollander Took Down Larry Nassar – <\/em>Eric Levenson<\/a><\/p>\n

In Larry Nassar’s Case, a Single Voice Eventually Raised an Army<\/em> – Juliet Macur<\/a><\/p>\n

*7 Lessons Learned From Larry Nassar Sentencing<\/em> – Dwight Adams<\/a><\/p>\n

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  1. Believe children when they report abuse.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  2. Anyone can be an abuser.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  3. Reporting of child abuse must be improved.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  4. Child molesters strive to win victims’ trust.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  5. Children must speak up about abuse.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  6. Police must take on tough cases.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  7. Investigative journalism is crucial.*<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    3) Good News<\/strong> – Our pastor, Cliff Jordan<\/a>, began a series of sermons, this past Sunday, on the good news<\/em>, or the Gospel, of Jesus Christ. You can listen to the podcast here<\/a>. \u00a0 The Gospel<\/a> is the very best news I have ever heard and received.<\/p>\n

    \"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Wikimedia Commons<\/a><\/p>\n

    A friend of mine wrote about good news in the midst of a horrific situation<\/a>. She gave me permission to post this. I hope you will read some of her story below…it’s our story, in one way or another.<\/p>\n

    “YOU ARE THE ONE – <\/strong><\/em>In December of 2004 we were fighting for our two-year-old daughter\u2019s life. She had been diagnosed with a rare (1 in a million) liver cancer earlier that year and had received multiple rounds of chemo in addition to a liver transplant. We spent weeks in the hospital (in two different States) and the Ronald McDonald House. Our \u201cnormal\u201d days revolved clinic visits and medicine schedules–no play groups or playgrounds for us. No public places. At all.<\/em><\/p>\n

    So much time, so much effort, so much money, so many prayers, so many tears\u2026 for one little girl. No one outside our small circle of family and friends knew her. She had never been on Youtube. She wasn\u2019t Instagram famous. Those things didn\u2019t exist. She was just one little girl, but to me she was THE ONE. She was the one worth all the time, effort, and money. She was the one worth saving.<\/em><\/p>\n

    On December 26, I watched in horror as the news poured in from Southeast Asia. I learned what a tsunami was and what it could do. The loss of life was staggering. 280,000 people gone in a matter of minutes. No time to say goodbye. No time to prepare. Just gone. While I was fighting for the one, 280,000 people were gone without a fight. Nameless, faceless rows of bodies covered in tarps. Each one was someone\u2019s daughter. Each one was someone\u2019s son. Each one was THE ONE to someone.<\/em><\/p>\n

    While I was sad for their families, I didn\u2019t know those 280,000 and I couldn\u2019t grasp the magnitude of the loss. All I could do was say a prayer and continue trying to save the one\u2014the one I knew and loved. The one I would have done anything to save. And I asked myself, was her life any more valuable than theirs?<\/em><\/p>\n

    I didn\u2019t know those people when they were alive. I wouldn\u2019t miss them when they were gone. They were the 280,000. She was THE ONE. But GOD knew every one of them. He knew their names, their stories, their hopes and their dreams. He was there when they were born. He watched them grow. He was there when they died. To him they were not just one of 280,000 or even 1 of 7 billion. To him they were THE ONE. He cared about each of them as much as I cared about my daughter. I can\u2019t fathom a love big enough and great enough to care about each one of us\u2026 all 7 billion of us\u2026 as if we were the one.<\/em><\/p>\n

    Paul called it a love that surpasses knowledge and prayed that we would be able to grasp how wide and long and high and deep it is.<\/em>
    \nGod knows us and loves us even more than I knew and loved my daughter. I would have given my life for her. He gave his life for us. I am limited by my humanity to the number of people I can love as much as I loved the one. God is not limited. His love has no limits, no boundaries, no cut off point. He is not willing that any should be lost. To Him, we are all THE ONE worth saving.<\/em><\/p>\n

    \u201cWhat do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the 99 on the hills and go look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about the one sheep than about the 99 that did not wander off. In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost.\u201d (Matt 18:12-14)<\/em><\/p>\n

    You are not a nameless, faceless, one of 7 billion. You are God\u2019s precious child. You are THE ONE. – <\/em>Marlo Salamy<\/a><\/p>\n

    Good News Network<\/a> – a secular website with the goal of posting good news every day<\/p>\n

    Gospel<\/em> – Explore God<\/a> – several articles on various topics related to the Gospel of Jesus Christ<\/p>\n

    What is the Gospel?<\/em> – Norman Herbst – Explore God<\/a><\/p>\n

    4) Love Across a Lifetime – <\/strong>My birthday was this past weekend, and we had very special guests come in for it. Dave’s parents. I’ve written about them before, but in this Friday Faves, I wanted to highlight their love and devotion toward each other. Throughout their marriage, John took care of Julia. He worked hard, affirmed her in all she did, and romanced her in sweet ways for almost all the years of their marriage. Today, Parkinson’s has robbed him of much of his memory and strength, but I know she remembers him regularly bringing her little bouquets of flowers from the garden.\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

    These days, Julia cares for John, as she promised him and God over 60 years ago. I am so thankful for our times together as family. It is a great heritage for our children and grandchildren to see the kind of love they have for each other. What a blessing to see our 2 y\/o granddaughter help guide PopPop’s walker as MomMom brought him to the dinner table each day of their visit. What love we all witness!<\/p>\n

    How about you? Please take the opportunity in the Comments below to give a shout-out to the people in your lives that demonstrate to you and yours what love really means.<\/p>\n

    5) A Hint of Spring –<\/strong> In recent days, the temperatures have been a bit warmer. The bulbs in the garden are quick to respond. A dear neighbor friend even gave me a Spring-themed birthday present. I actually love winter, but this one has been a cold one. Spring will be welcome when it comes around!<\/p>\n

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    Hope you have a beautiful weekend surrounded by people you love…or maybe you have the opportunity to surround those you love who have a harder time (because of age or infirmity) doing the same. Don’t miss them…don’t let your children miss them. What a blessing!<\/p>\n

    P.S…tomorrow I am finally seeing the movie The Greatest Showman<\/em><\/a> with some friends. So excited. Love the music already (yep…as you already know, Nathan arranged a medley<\/a> for classical guitar from this film).<\/p>\n

    Bonuses:<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Amish Sayings<\/a><\/p>\n

    Disabled by Design – My Abundant Life Without Arms<\/em> – Daniel Ritchie<\/a><\/p>\n

    Cracker Barrel<\/a> – Lunch with one of my kiddos, Valentine’s Cards, and Rocking Chairs\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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