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Weekend! Sometimes the end of the week just pours out so quickly it splashes right into the weekend. Friday Faves on a Saturday, y’all.<\/p>\n

1) Celebrating Fall <\/strong>– In this part of the world, Fall has arrived. For many years, we lived in countries where seasons were subtle in their changing one into another. The rewards were the lush foliage and flowers of the rainy season and the deep textures in the seeming sameness of the desert. [I miss those places now as our American Fall was missed in those years.]<\/p>\n

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Photo Credit: Max Pixel<\/a> – Geese in migration, a lovely sign of Fall<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Fall is just peeking out now around the corner of Summer…even as the sturdiest of bushes push out their last summer blooms.\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

An East Tennessee friend of ours, Pam Archer<\/a>, laid out a Fall palette for us at The Colorful Cottage<\/a>. It’s like turning the pages of a magazine taking in festive and inviting entryways into homes…and into Fall. [Click through all the pictures at the link above.] You can almost smell pumpkin spice and a fire in the fireplace.<\/p>\n

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Photo Credit: The Colorful Cottage<\/a><\/p>\n

…and before long, the full glory of Fall will be briefly and wondrously upon us.\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Deb Mills<\/p>\n

2) On Being Forgiven <\/strong>– This week I offended someone. It could be that offending people happens many times over, without me knowing, but this time…I knew. He made it very clear…and he didn’t forgive me.<\/p>\n

This was a stranger…a business person we were contacting to do a service…After several messages left on the company voicemail, the last one got a quick call-back. He didn’t like my choice of words nor my tone…and essentially told me I could look somewhere else for service.<\/p>\n

Gulp… I tried to explain again and said I was sorry several times over. He refused to understand my side of the situation. We don’t slam down phones anymore…but. That conversation and hang-up kept me up for hours. I felt terrible and then mad and then terrible again.<\/p>\n

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A two-minute conversation full of accusation and misunderstanding was rough on me and rough on him, too, maybe. We secured another company to do what we needed, and the gentleman above may remember me as a demanding and unyielding woman for a few days. Our conversation may make it harder on the next person who calls, and for that, I am also sorry.<\/p>\n

The marvel is what a wonder in life it is to be forgiven. When people apply grace. When margin is extended for failure or unintentional misspeak. When we are given the benefit of the doubt. When a choice is made not to be offended. When a cheek is turned. When a harsh response is withheld. Even when we feel completely justified to do otherwise.<\/p>\n

Forgiveness – that incredible experience of not getting what we might have deserved; that generous letting go of an opportunity to have the upper hand; that treating another person just as if they hadn’t wronged you. This is not doormat behavior…this is giving grace.<\/p>\n

Kelly Delp<\/a>‘s piece this week On Becoming an Outsider<\/em><\/a> reminded me of times when we lived overseas. Day after day, person after person dealt gently with our offenses… We were foreigners; we didn’t know; we were forgiven.<\/p>\n

https:\/\/velvetashes.com\/on-becoming-an-outsider\/<\/p>\n

It wouldn’t hurt, maybe, if we treated each other a bit more like foreigners… in a good way, of course.<\/p>\n

3) Old Trees<\/strong> – Tall trees that have stood sentinel for decades upon decades deserve our gratitude and respect. In our backyard, we have had two giant oaks shade us in summer and drop leaves and acorns all Fall. Now, one has died. Some sort of blight. Just seeing it without green leaves in summer seems so wrong alongside the healthy sister tree. \"Image<\/p>\n

So…it must be taken down…sadly.<\/p>\n

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Honestly, it was just such an excellent tree service company…and the way they took down that tree carried a measure of respect as well…I could have been imagining, but I don’t think so.\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

“Dust to dust” came to mind as that massive tree was chipped (branches) or hauled off (trunk) and the stump ground to mulch.<\/p>\n

Grateful for that tree…and for the one still standing in the center of the yard.<\/p>\n

4) Signage – <\/strong>Signage is a form of communication, either in words, symbols, or images. As new drivers, we all learned the importance of attending to signs to keep ourselves and others from harm. We read labels and note landmarks. Signage can communicate much more than the literal messages. Take the signage below as a for instance. It’s in a local church building. What does it say to you?<\/p>\n

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Everywhere you looked in and around this building, signs pointed to community – how folks could serve God and serve one another and with one another. This isn’t my church (I was there for a meeting), but the signage was so engaging and empowering.<\/p>\n

Another sign that finally moved me to action was the sign below. Several of these have been placed around our city because of the daily presence of people begging at intersections. It seemed a hopeful “No worries. Your city is watching out for the homeless.”\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

This week, I called the number on the sign. It was our county’s social services division. The voicemail instructions were helpful and as promised I received a call back later in the same day. That was when I discovered this phone number was meant to start the process for homeless to get “in the system”. The person answering my question was honest and forth-coming. If someone was homeless (or would be in 3 days), if they called this number, it would start a process whereby he\/she could get housing…as to when? Days, weeks…<\/p>\n

This sign, its agency, and the church community above (and others like it) have the skills and desire to make good happen. Then there might be a place to sleep for that one begging …sooner.<\/p>\n

5) a Pile of Books –<\/strong> Truth be told, I didn’t get nearly far enough on my summer reading list.\u00a0 We always plan an annual get-away to the beach for a few days, once the high season is over. A few of these books will be coming along.\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

One in particular will definitely make the cut. In this season of life, I seem always to be culling one thing or another from our stash of wonderfulness. Thinning out some of our books, I found Calvin Miller<\/a>‘s Walking with Saints – Through the Best and Worst Times of Our Lives<\/em><\/a>. Flipping through the pages of this old book of Dave’s I realized it was one that needed to be read sooner than later.\u00a0 It was a Christmas present, bought in Cairo, by a little boy who loved his daddy and loved to draw. That gift inscription alone means it will stay in our stash of stuff for the next forever.<\/p>\n

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Do you have some books on your must-read list? Please tell us about them in Comments below. Also, do you have books that have made it to be a sentimental favorite? Those stories are meant to be shared as well.<\/p>\n

That’s the 5 this week. Hope your week was full of new and old favorites. Enjoy this first weekend of Fall…either for real, or through the images and stories of those of us who have the sweet experience of this season. Blessings.<\/p>\n

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This Guy:<\/p>\n