{"id":22457,"date":"2019-06-03T22:12:53","date_gmt":"2019-06-04T02:12:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=22457"},"modified":"2019-06-04T12:53:12","modified_gmt":"2019-06-04T16:53:12","slug":"monday-morning-moment-rewiring-your-brain-toward-thinking-in-the-positive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=22457","title":{"rendered":"Monday Morning Moment &#8211; Rewiring Your Brain Toward Thinking in the Positive"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Monday-great-coworker-13-ways-to-improve-HubSpot.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22461\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Monday-great-coworker-13-ways-to-improve-HubSpot.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"761\" height=\"316\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Monday-great-coworker-13-ways-to-improve-HubSpot.jpeg 761w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Monday-great-coworker-13-ways-to-improve-HubSpot-300x125.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 761px) 100vw, 761px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.hubspot.com\/marketing\/good-coworker\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hubspot, Carly Stec<\/a><\/p>\n<p>OK&#8230;so today started really great. Then it got a bit murky&#8230;then downright dark. I was all set to turn today&#8217;s blog into the ultimate rant! Fortunately, something else happened along the way.<a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Pet-Peeves-AZ-Quotes.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22458\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Pet-Peeves-AZ-Quotes.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"850\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Pet-Peeves-AZ-Quotes.jpg 850w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Pet-Peeves-AZ-Quotes-300x141.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Pet-Peeves-AZ-Quotes-768x361.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/quote\/355173\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">AZ Quotes<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Looking up meanings to words like &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wiktionary.org\/wiki\/disingenuous\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">disingenuous<\/a>&#8221; and thinking of the ways that people communicate that shut others down. Aarrgghh!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.inc.com\/john-rampton\/25-phrases-that-kill-workplace-relationship.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>25 Phrases That Kill Workplace Relationships<\/em> &#8211; John Rampton<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ranker.com\/list\/everyone_s-biggest-pet-peeves\/analise.dubner?page=2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Which of These Incredibly Annoying Pet Peeves is the Worst?<\/em> &#8211; Analise Dubner<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Then&#8230;I snapped out of it. Negative thinking is such an unhelpful, unhealthy activity. It is not how I want to be, nor was I ever&#8230;routinely negative, that is&#8230; until recent years. Getting older seems to bend us toward negativity. My mama sure didn&#8217;t raise me to be that way.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-18932\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Blog-Family-Motto-Cinelesson-275-Pinterest.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Blog-Family-Motto-Cinelesson-275-Pinterest.jpg 720w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Blog-Family-Motto-Cinelesson-275-Pinterest-300x223.jpg 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"720\" height=\"534\" \/>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/1688918581101379\/?lp=true\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Disney Film Bambi, CineLessons, Pinterest<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Somewhere in the middle of beefing up my rants on condescension\u00a0 and exclusivity and those most affected by decision-making not having a place at that table (see the downward spiral?)&#8230;I took a deep breath and turned around. Dave will sometimes tell me &#8220;pull up&#8221; when he could see me mentally plunge downward&#8230;and so I did&#8230;pull up.<\/p>\n<p>You may have read what I wrote previously about identifying negativity and correcting course. It seems to be a bit of a recurrent subject of late. Those pieces are here:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=21712\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Monday Morning Moment &#8211; Grumpy Begets Grumpy &#8211; Understanding It, Not Reacting, and Turning It Around<\/em> &#8211; Deb Mills<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=18392\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Monday Morning Moment &#8211; Negativity &#8211; Its Cost and Cure<\/em> &#8211; Deb Mills<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Today, I came across a super-simple prescription for rewiring our thinking toward positivity. The team at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailyhealthpost.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Daily Health Post<\/a> focused on <em>complaining<\/em> as a culprit that can actually cause our brains to default to anxiety and depression. From experience, I know this is true. Check out the article below:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dailyhealthpost.com\/complaining-brain-negativity\/?fbclid=IwAR18vmoGANvlM-QPzjL0NV8Pp2NLCg_25EkwAzInD3Ik5RUg6Yg9F9Dm0i4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>How Complaining Physically Rewires Your Brain to Be Anxious and Depressed<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Daily-Health-Post.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22462\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Daily-Health-Post.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"420\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Daily-Health-Post.jpg 420w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Daily-Health-Post-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 420px) 100vw, 420px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/dailyhealthpost.com\/complaining-brain-negativity\/2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Daily Health Post<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The prescription for rewiring our thinking is straightforward and easy, with practice. In fact, these four reminders could easily sit on a card at our work station to help us stay on the road and out of the ditch:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Be grateful. &#8211; <\/strong>Keep a journal and write down things\/persons for which you&#8217;re grateful &#8211; morning and evening. Turn your thoughts toward gratitude when you&#8217;re tempted to go negative\/complaining.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Catch yourself. &#8211; <\/strong>Shake off the negativity before your friends\/coworkers intervene&#8230;or pull away. Learn to catch yourself and change course.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Change your mood. &#8211; <\/strong>If your emotions start to spiral, shift your environment. Take a walk. Listen to music. Step away from your work station. Grab a few minutes with a friend.<\/li>\n<li><strong><strong>Practice wise effort. &#8211; <em>&#8220;<\/em><\/strong><em>Wise effort is the practice of letting go of anything that doesn\u2019t serve you.<\/em><\/strong><em> If your worry won\u2019t improve your situation or teach you a lesson, simply let it go and move on.<\/em><em>This is much easier said then done, of course, but if you write it out, ask friends for advice, and take some time to think it through constructively, it really can be done.&#8221; &#8211; <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/dailyhealthpost.com\/complaining-brain-negativity\/3\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Daily Health Post<\/a><em><br \/>\n<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>All this is common sense. Still, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/edstetzer\/2018\/october\/why-i-wrote-christians-in-age-of-outrage-ed-stetzer.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">an age of outrage<\/a>, we must practice thinking positively until it becomes a discipline&#8230;a healthy habit.<\/p>\n<p>So&#8230;as fascinating as you would have found my rant, I&#8217;m sure&#8230;better to let it go&#8230;and the stress along with it. For now. There are things, destructive hurtful actions (or communications) that might need our intervention along the way. However, we only hurt ourselves and those closest to us when we just go all negative, faithless, and brooding. Thanking God, this is not how this day will end.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.hubspot.com\/marketing\/good-coworker\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Art of Being a Great Coworker: 13 Ways to Improve Your Work Relationships<\/em> &#8211; Carly Stec<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Right-Frame-of-Mind-Frank-Sonnenberg-Online.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-21894\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Right-Frame-of-Mind-Frank-Sonnenberg-Online.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 612px) 100vw, 612px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Right-Frame-of-Mind-Frank-Sonnenberg-Online.jpg 612w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Blog-Positive-Thinking-Right-Frame-of-Mind-Frank-Sonnenberg-Online-232x300.jpg 232w\" alt=\"\" width=\"612\" height=\"792\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/fso_poster-get-in-the-right-frame-of-mind.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Frank Sonnenberg Online<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photo Credit: Hubspot, Carly Stec OK&#8230;so today started really great. Then it got a bit murky&#8230;then downright dark. I was all set to turn today&#8217;s blog into the ultimate rant! Fortunately, something else happened along the way.Photo Credit: AZ Quotes Looking up meanings to words like &#8220;disingenuous&#8221; and thinking of the ways that people communicate &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=22457\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Monday Morning Moment &#8211; Rewiring Your Brain Toward Thinking in the Positive<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3346,5628,2986,1628,1704,1705,1148,7027,6548,3395,1265,1732,293,5227,3751,761,789,4160,610,1002,1453,2821,185],"tags":[7263,7258,4452,4688,7264,1096,323,6987,7256,4455,4599,1056,7259,1459,1458,7257,5902,7262,3602,7261,294,7260],"class_list":["post-22457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anger","category-anxiety","category-attitude","category-character","category-communication","category-conversations","category-critical-thinking","category-decision-making","category-depression","category-disciplines","category-friends","category-leadership","category-life-skills","category-productivity","category-purpose","category-redeeming-restoring","category-relationships","category-resilience","category-thanksgiving-or-gratefulness","category-transformational","category-work","category-work-culture","category-workplace-or-marketplace","tag-age-of-outrage","tag-analise-dubner","tag-anxiety","tag-bambi","tag-carly-stec","tag-communication","tag-complaining","tag-coworkers","tag-daily-health-post","tag-depression","tag-frank-sonnenberg","tag-gratefulness","tag-john-rampton","tag-monday-morning","tag-monday-morning-moment","tag-negative-thinking","tag-negativity","tag-pet-peeves","tag-stress","tag-whoopi-goldberg","tag-work","tag-workplace-relationships"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-5Qd","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22457","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22457"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22457\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22474,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22457\/revisions\/22474"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22457"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22457"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22457"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}