{"id":22729,"date":"2019-07-01T14:29:46","date_gmt":"2019-07-01T18:29:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=22729"},"modified":"2019-07-01T14:29:46","modified_gmt":"2019-07-01T18:29:46","slug":"monday-morning-moment-be-kind-you-just-never-know-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=22729","title":{"rendered":"Monday Morning Moment – Be Kind – You Just Never Know"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: Gelene Keever<\/a><\/p>\n

[From the Archives]<\/p>\n

\u201cNever judge a man before you’ve walked two moons in his moccasins.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 – Sharon Creech<\/a>, Walk Two Moons<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

My heart is especially tendered right now\u00a0\u00a0toward\u00a0some friends going through a difficult time. They come to mind often and I’m praying my heart out for them in these days.<\/p>\n

As I did early morning errands in anticipation of a long workday, those I passed along the way put me to thinking about the proverb above. A dear friend of mine in cancer nursing quotes it often.<\/p>\n

There are some people’s moccasins I hope, in all honesty, to never have to wear. Some have borne their lot in life well, and others with deep bitterness and relenting anger. Even the moccasins that have the appearance of being fine and fancy must bear a cost to the owner…more than the money they paid. I prefer my own old, scuffed, marred, well-traveled moccasins.\u00a0 Yet, today, my heart is full, thinking of those whose roads are difficult to walk right now.<\/p>\n

Praying hard for someone does something to us more than we anticipate. It causes us to look at others with greater compassion. We never know fully what that colleague or neighbor or beggar or family member really has on them today. An act of kindness, or a word of hope (real hope), or a decision to be deferent – might make a lighter burden for that one…next to you.<\/p>\n

“This man beside us also has a hard fight with an unfavouring world, with strong temptations, with doubts and fears, with wounds of the past which have skinned over, but which smart when they are touched. It is a fact, however surprising. And when this occurs to us we are moved to deal kindly with him, to bid him be of good cheer, to let him understand that we are also fighting a battle; we are bound not to irritate him, nor press hardly upon him nor help his lower self.” – John Watson, The Homely Virtues by John Watson – Courtesy<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

You usually see quotes from God’s Word in my writing, but the\u00a0proverbs of native peoples give us glimpses of the wisdom of God as well. I close with this Cherokee story, and bid you a day sweetened by a fresh look at those around you. With hearts\u00a0tendered, you just never know what\u00a0difference you can make…<\/p>\n

“An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life: A fight is going on inside me, he said to the boy. It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego. The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. This same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”
\nThe old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed. “”*<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

*American Indian Proverb Quotes<\/a><\/p>\n

Walk a Mile…a Day…32 Hours in Someone Else’s Shoes<\/em> by Gelene Keever<\/a><\/p>\n

Walk Two Moons<\/em> by Sharon Creech<\/a><\/p>\n

War Room<\/em> – A Film and a Strategy – Praying Our Hearts Out for Those We Love<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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