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Happy weekend, y’all! This week was another one of those steep learning curve weeks for me. So much to think about and then to figure out how to apply practically to life. Step by step. My faves of the week follow:<\/p>\n

1) School Re-openings – <\/strong>Where we live, the final decisions have come down on this Fall’s school re-openings. Finally, we have the answer. What makes this a Friday Fave for me is that NOW we know what is before us – as parents and friends\/family of you parents.<\/p>\n

For those parents who need to keep working with small ones at home, it will be a continuing challenge. Our city school system and 2 out of the 3 county systems will have on-line instruction (at least for the first quarter of the school year). \"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Wallpaper Flare<\/a><\/p>\n

The 3rd county has choice for the parents to pick either all in-school instruction or all on-line. Nice when parents have a choice. There will be health guidelines (masks, social distancing, etc.), but the risk is there for the in-school option should COVID cases start ramping up within the school population (teachers, staff, students, families).\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Pixabay<\/a><\/p>\n

This has been a hot topic since the start of COVID-19 this Spring. Which is better – in-school instruction or online learning? What is considered safer for the short-term may be detrimental in the long run. Brown University economist Emily Oster<\/a>‘s article “Parents Can’t Wait Around Forever”<\/em><\/a> supports the data that returning to school may not present a great risk. So many stands on this topic in the U.S…<\/p>\n

https:\/\/www.wric.com\/news\/local-news\/as-central-va-school-districts-opt-for-virtual-learning-cdc-releases-guidelines-in-favor-of-reopening-schools\/<\/p>\n

CDC Sides with Trump, Says Students Need to Go Back to School<\/em> – Tim Pearce<\/a><\/p>\n

Texas Officials Offer Schools Option to Hold Online-only Classes Until November<\/em> – Brooke Seipel<\/a><\/p>\n

Millions of children forced into labor as COVID-19 creates global hunger crisis: World Vision <\/em>– Anugrah Kumar <\/a><\/p>\n

Private schools in our area are opening with in-school instruction. Daycare centers and preschools continue to provide support for little ones, but what do working parents do with their school-aged children? It is a conundrum for many.\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Pikrepo<\/a><\/p>\n

Homeschooling is becoming more the norm – whether it’s parental (or other adult) supervision of students with on-line instruction or the exit from public schools to all-out homeschooling. Fortunately, for parents new to homeschooling, resources abound. Almost to a dizzying level.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Homeschool Hive, Facebook, Instagram @Lifeographer<\/a><\/p>\n

What’s happening where you are?<\/p>\n

I feel for the parents and children (especially those families most vulnerable – single-parent, poor, non-native-English speaking, etc.). On the flip-side, I can also understand the trepidation school systems trying to provide a safe space for learning on-campus. Getting students back in school as soon as can be well-managed seems best for long-term learning, social and mental (maybe even physical) health, and (unpopular opinion, but essential) for the sake of the economy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What are your thoughts?<\/p>\n

2) Restraint – <\/strong>My husband is an introvert; I am not. He commended my every day early-morning restraint in holding onto my thoughts until he had his first cup of coffee. I’m glad, after all these years, he still notices. Restraint is a good thing. It is defined<\/a> as “the act of holding something back”.\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Flickr, Raphael Love<\/a><\/p>\n

Restraining ourselves is way different than being restrained or restraining others (in case, that word gives a negative connotation). Our culture these days seems not so into restraint. Social media as well as the streets of our cities are ablaze with the activity of “casting off restraint”<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Some actions and ideologies demand intervention on the part of those most affected and those standing with them. Still, restraint has its place in honoring one another. We are not so far down the path of mean-spirited self-expression and group-think that we can’t change the course of culture. That is my hope anyway.<\/p>\n

My voice doesn’t always have to be heard. What we do with our thinking is exponentially more impacting than what we say. <\/strong>Especially if we are tempted to “speak” with bricks and lasers… [I get that it feels like a last-ditch effort<\/a> in some cases.]<\/p>\n

Practicing some measure of restraint gives space to hear others and to treat them with dignity if not yet understanding.<\/p>\n

For many in our country, we will speak with our vote in the November elections. For every day, we can use restraint as a demonstration of true caring for those around us, provided the action energized by the restraint is well and rightfully aimed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The Benefits of Restraint – What Are We Practicing? Greed or Restraint?<\/em> – Alison Bonds Shapiro<\/a><\/p>\n

Divine Restraint<\/em> – Alex M. Knight<\/a><\/p>\n

A Eulogy for a Friend, a Lament for Our Nation<\/em> – David French<\/a><\/p>\n

3) Tiny Harvests<\/strong> – This is the time of summer when we are gathering the harvest of tomatoes and peppers. It’s the time for many of our flowers to pass from previous glory into the magnificent “going to seed”. We have many little visitors in our garden these days. I especially love how the goldfinches harvest<\/a> the seeds of the coneflowers.\"\"<\/a>Photo Credit: Piqsels<\/a><\/p>\n

They are joined by all kinds of other little feeders and harvesters. Have a look with me.\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a> \"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

4) Your Next Job – <\/strong>In 2015, I read a Jon Acuff<\/a> book, during a season of huge change. It had a huge impact on my thinking regarding career moves. The book was Do Over<\/em><\/a>. It inspired me to actually do a blog series<\/a> on the book; it was that good.<\/p>\n

Dave and I read the book. On a mini-vacation that summer, we took Acuff’s book along and, together, we did his exercise on using index cards to help us look at our strengths and passions. In the pursuit of either a different career or recognizing our fit for our current one. It was very instructive and affirming. \"Image<\/p>\n

In these days, we have friends who were furloughed because of the COVID-19 impact on the economy. You might find this exercise helpful. Jon Acuff has given us a 14-minute how-to YouTube video<\/a>. As he guides the viewer through this exercise, he encourages us to think big through our strengths.\u00a0 “This is the hero’s slow walk from the explosion moment. What’s something you’re good, dare I say amazing, at?” <\/strong>Consider doing this exercise whether you’re looking at a job change or you are just fine with your job. It’s a revealing and elevating experience.<\/p>\n