{"id":29263,"date":"2021-12-06T11:26:15","date_gmt":"2021-12-06T16:26:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=29263"},"modified":"2021-12-06T11:48:50","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T16:48:50","slug":"monday-morning-moment-walled-in-dismissed-frazzled-and-discouraged-nevertheless","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=29263","title":{"rendered":"Monday Morning Moment &#8211; Walled In, Dismissed, Frazzled, and Discouraged&#8230;Nevertheless"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-God-F.-B.-Meyer-Heartlight.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29283\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-God-F.-B.-Meyer-Heartlight.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"899\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-God-F.-B.-Meyer-Heartlight.jpg 899w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-God-F.-B.-Meyer-Heartlight-300x159.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-God-F.-B.-Meyer-Heartlight-768x407.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 899px) 100vw, 899px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.heartlight.org\/gallery\/3655.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Heartlight<\/a><\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s your situation? How&#8217;s your heart? What is your body holding onto? Remember when you were so full of the possibilities of life, so fresh with anticipation of what was ahead, what you could accomplish?<\/p>\n<p>Then life happens, and it doesn&#8217;t always work out like you thought it would. Running turned into slogging. Your passion got sucker-punched. The opportunities and advancements kept coming in, but at some point, bewilderment set in. You just got tired&#8230;just plain <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/photo?fbid=455904445891185&amp;set=pb.100044149013620.-2207520000..\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">weary<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Some call this burnout, and it may be. What if it is more than that? What if it is a bloody battlefield where, if not our very lives, our joy is under full attack. What if those God-given strengths, those life-honed skills, and serendipitous accomplishments seem not to be at play. Maybe you&#8217;re overthinking, or maybe&#8230;just maybe&#8230;the way through is surprisingly simple.<\/p>\n<p>We all have an important place to occupy in this world. Every single one of us. Fight for it. Walls may seem high, bottlenecks too narrow, and, at times, adversaries hammering around us. <strong>Nevertheless<\/strong>&#8230;We can find a way to bring the walls down (or just go around them), squeeze through the bottlenecks, and shake off the idea that we can&#8217;t win&#8230;just. too. tired.<\/p>\n<p>Circumstances in life and work can drain us. Especially over time. Oddly we can still be effective in life but the emotional, mental, and physical toll adds up. The body remembers&#8230;and<a href=\"https:\/\/www.christianbook.com\/keeps-score-brain-mind-healing-trauma\/bessel-van-der-kolk\/9780143127741\/pd\/3127741?en=bing-pla&amp;event=SHOP&amp;kw=books-0-20%7C3127741&amp;p=1179517&amp;dv=c&amp;msclkid=10cf0fdec58f108e806a6e70f1b1b298&amp;utm_source=bing&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=Shopping%20Books&amp;utm_term=4580428013628336&amp;utm_content=s-books\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> keeps score<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus gives us a beautiful and intimate picture of the &#8220;nevertheless&#8221;. The night before he would die on a Roman cross, he appealed to the Father, as his painful and humiliating death loomed ahead of him.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Not-my-will-but-yours-Biblepic.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29269\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Not-my-will-but-yours-Biblepic.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Not-my-will-but-yours-Biblepic.jpg 960w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Not-my-will-but-yours-Biblepic-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Not-my-will-but-yours-Biblepic-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Not-my-will-but-yours-Biblepic-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/biblepic.com\/45\/24791.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Biblepic<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless&#8230;here was the Messiah, the Christ, in all the sinless perfection of his life, coming to the very end of himself. Exhausted, emotionally overwrought, yet clear-minded, understanding exactly what would be required from him. Nevertheless&#8230;he stayed the course. He was not giving up. He knew what was at stake. He trusted the Father, and he persisted in what he was called to finish.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Gethsemane-the-Cross-Leonard-Ravenhill-quotefancy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29281\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Gethsemane-the-Cross-Leonard-Ravenhill-quotefancy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3840\" height=\"2160\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Gethsemane-the-Cross-Leonard-Ravenhill-quotefancy.jpg 3840w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Gethsemane-the-Cross-Leonard-Ravenhill-quotefancy-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Gethsemane-the-Cross-Leonard-Ravenhill-quotefancy-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Gethsemane-the-Cross-Leonard-Ravenhill-quotefancy-1024x576.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3840px) 100vw, 3840px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/quotefancy.com\/media\/wallpaper\/3840x2160\/2434206-Leonard-Ravenhill-Quote-Gethsemane-is-where-He-died-the-cross-is.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Leonard Ravenhill, QuoteFancy<\/a><\/p>\n<p>For us, we have choices. We can resign ourselves to a life and work not what we anticipated&#8230;or we can clear our heads and remember our own callings. No walls are too high nor adversaries too strong.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Crucified-with-Christ-Biblepic.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29270\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Crucified-with-Christ-Biblepic.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Crucified-with-Christ-Biblepic.jpg 960w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Crucified-with-Christ-Biblepic-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Crucified-with-Christ-Biblepic-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-Crucified-with-Christ-Biblepic-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/biblepic.com\/42\/galatians_2-20.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Biblepic<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We each bring something to the table. If we withdraw from the table or accept a perceived exclusion, we can miss the fullness of life we were meant to have. Others will miss us as well. Believe that. It&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n<p>When fatigue and discouragement set in, and our bodies are drained of response, we need to take hold of the &#8220;nevertheless&#8221;. It&#8217;s reminiscent of the many &#8220;but God&#8217;s&#8221; in Scripture and in life. We may be up against a Red Sea like Moses, or a Goliath like young David, or a corrupting culture like Jesus. We lament &#8220;but God&#8221;&#8230;we are too inadequate. Too small. Too aware of risk. Nevertheless, our &#8220;but God&#8217;s&#8221; can change to what is truth. The meaning of the protest changes into the &#8220;but God&#8221; miracles when He shows up and does what only He can do&#8230;in us. Through us.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-the-counsel-of-the-Lord-stands-Proverbs-Biblepic.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29272\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-the-counsel-of-the-Lord-stands-Proverbs-Biblepic.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-the-counsel-of-the-Lord-stands-Proverbs-Biblepic.jpg 960w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-the-counsel-of-the-Lord-stands-Proverbs-Biblepic-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-the-counsel-of-the-Lord-stands-Proverbs-Biblepic-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-the-counsel-of-the-Lord-stands-Proverbs-Biblepic-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/biblepic.com\/55\/proverbs_19-21.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Biblepic<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hoping you lean into the &#8220;nevertheless&#8221; today.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey\/id1359249098?i=1000542135544\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcast &#8211; <em>Why Everyone&#8217;s Freaking Out (&amp; Why We Don&#8217;t Need To)<\/em> &#8211; David Marvin, Guest on Relatable Podcast with Allie Beth Stuckey<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/churchplants.com\/articles\/5604-15-proven-ways-to-suck-the-life-out-of-your-staff.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>15 Proven Ways to Suck the Life Out of Your Staff<\/em> &#8211; Scott Cochrane<\/a> &#8211; applies to any workplace. Take note of the &#8220;Strategies To-Avoid List&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.relevantchildrensministry.com\/2011\/12\/6-things-that-can-suck-life-out-of-you.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>6 Things That Can Suck the Life Out of You!<\/em> &#8211; Dale Hudson<\/a> (and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.relevantchildrensministry.com\/2011\/12\/whats-sucking-life-out-of-you-pt-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Part 2<\/a> on his story and how he dealt with those things that sucked the life out of him &#8211; to get you started, they are: People, Problems, Pressure, Pace, Pain, and Personal Sin)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ccca.biola.edu\/advent\/2021\/#day-dec-6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Humble Rejoice<\/em> &#8211; Rick Bee<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mindandbodyjuggle.com\/2018\/10\/22\/nevertheless\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Nevertheless<\/em> &#8211; Robert Ferguson<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-She-persisted-2-Pinterest-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29265\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-She-persisted-2-Pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2400\" height=\"1643\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-She-persisted-2-Pinterest-1.jpg 2400w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-She-persisted-2-Pinterest-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-She-persisted-2-Pinterest-1-768x526.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Blog-Nevertheless-She-persisted-2-Pinterest-1-1024x701.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2400px) 100vw, 2400px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/28991991334995837\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pinterest<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photo Credit: Heartlight What&#8217;s your situation? How&#8217;s your heart? What is your body holding onto? Remember when you were so full of the possibilities of life, so fresh with anticipation of what was ahead, what you could accomplish? Then life happens, and it doesn&#8217;t always work out like you thought it would. Running turned into &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=29263\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Monday Morning Moment &#8211; Walled In, Dismissed, Frazzled, and Discouraged&#8230;Nevertheless<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[810,5628,926,2986,34,1628,1618,1148,7027,6548,3208,1454,903,18,1732,317,293,1103,1450,353,3751,3752,1453],"tags":[9664,4452,9669,9670,9666,4455,7219,9675,3279,9667,2686,9662,1784,1835,175,9676,9672,9674,9671,1459,1458,9668,9661,9665,9673,9660,9663,2534],"class_list":["post-29263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-good-gifts","category-anxiety","category-attending-or-focus","category-attitude","category-books","category-character","category-courage","category-critical-thinking","category-decision-making","category-depression","category-finishing-strong","category-fresh-start","category-grace","category-jesus","category-leadership","category-lessons-learned","category-life-skills","category-lifelong-learning","category-monday-morning","category-monday-morning-moment","category-purpose","category-purpose-in-life","category-work","tag-allie-beth-stuckey","tag-anxiety","tag-but-god","tag-dale-hudson","tag-david-marvin","tag-depression","tag-dr-bessel-van-der-kolk","tag-f-b-meyer","tag-fatigue","tag-freaking-out","tag-gethsemane","tag-giftings","tag-humility","tag-jesus","tag-joy","tag-kelli-bachara","tag-leeches","tag-leonard-ravenhill","tag-life-sucking","tag-monday-morning","tag-monday-morning-moment","tag-nevertheless","tag-persistence","tag-relatable","tag-rick-bee","tag-scott-cochrane","tag-strengths","tag-trauma"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-7BZ","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29263"}],"version-history":[{"count":20,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29263\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29290,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29263\/revisions\/29290"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}