{"id":30452,"date":"2022-07-18T15:03:36","date_gmt":"2022-07-18T19:03:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=30452"},"modified":"2022-07-18T15:03:36","modified_gmt":"2022-07-18T19:03:36","slug":"5-friday-faves-christmas-in-july-with-beyond-the-guitar-no-advice-or-not-without-relationship-summer-fun-food-a-working-kitchen-and-parenting-trials-travails","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=30452","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves – Christmas in July with Beyond the Guitar; No Advice or Not Without Relationship; Summer Fun, Food, & Film; a Working Kitchen, and Parenting Trials & Travails"},"content":{"rendered":"

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It’s Friday. Faves of the week lined up. Add yours in Comments below.<\/p>\n

1) Christmas in July with Beyond the Guitar – <\/strong>OK, so Christmas in July<\/em> <\/a>is actually a thing. I’m actually a big fan…especially when the Hallmark Channel<\/a> has its Countdown to Christmas movies through the month of July. Sentimentality and plot predictability not withstanding, you can’t beat the gorgeous winter scenes (or summer for you in the Southern Hemisphere) and all the Christmas-themes food and decor. So fun.<\/p>\n

That’s why, I’m offering up these Christmas classical guitar creations of Nathan Mills<\/a> at Beyond the Guitar<\/a>. Merry Christmas in July!<\/p>\n

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While Nathan takes a brief hiatus from his usual YouTube channel<\/a> to focus on his other work, only we Patreon subscribers get new content (subscribe<\/a>). In this bit of time, I decided to highlight some of his arrangements already appreciated by his 500k-plus subscribers. These four linked below are for your Christmas in July enjoyment.<\/p>\n

YouTube – 3 Christmas Movie Classics on Guitar<\/em> – Beyond the Guitar<\/a><\/p>\n

YouTube – A Star Wars Christmas<\/em> – Classical Guitar Mashup – Beyond the Guitar<\/a><\/p>\n

YouTube – Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas<\/em> (w\/ a surprise guest) – Classical Guitar Cover – Beyond the Guitar<\/a><\/p>\n

YouTube – December Song<\/em> (Peter Hollens) – Classical Guitar Cover – Beyond the Guitar<\/a><\/p>\n

2) No Advice or Not Without Relationship? <\/strong>My husband and I are currently in a summer soulcare experience. It’s been fascinating and super helpful. One of the guidelines in the small group times is No Advice<\/strong>. I was surprised at how quiet I became in the sessions. Asking good questions that will allow others to make their way to their own solutions is a skill that may be just stirring for me. Sure hope so.<\/p>\n

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Why are we so bent on giving advice? Can it be for the thrill of having power or influence<\/a>? I don’t think that is my goal, but it could be part of my unconscious motivation. Also, it is not a conscious goal for me to advise so we can move on from the painful moment…I don’t think giving advice is born out of my own discomfort.<\/p>\n

I frankly love advice personally (good counsel, mentoring, coaching). Maybe, though, it has always been in relationship with people who clearly love me and want the best for me.<\/p>\n

That’s definitely the best foundation for any of us to advise others. We need to truly care bout them.<\/p>\n

As for those who really don’t want advice from anyone else?…that’s a risky way to live, for sure.<\/p>\n

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The answer for sure, unless someone is stepping out in front of a proverbial bus (or a real one), don’t lead with advice. Ask questions. Go deeper. Give the seeking one an opportunity to understand their own situation better. Take it to God. He gives the absolute best advice.<\/div>\n
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3) Summer Fun, Food & Film – <\/strong>Road trips. A day of fishing. Botanical Garden in full bloom. Summer fruits and vegetables. BLT sandwiches at their best. Ladies’ Teas. Fish fries. Top Gun Maverick.<\/div>\n
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Any road trip has to have Wawa coffee attached to it:<\/div>\n
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A day of fishing with three sweet generations:<\/div>\n
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Visits in the Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden:<\/div>\n
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The summer BLT sandwich with a perfect tomato from the garden:<\/div>\n
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A tomato grown and enjoyed by this guy:<\/div>\n
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A ladies’ tea:<\/div>\n
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Fish Fries:<\/div>\n
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Top Gun Maverick<\/a> – the best movie I’ve seen in a very long time!<\/div>\n
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11 Leadership Quotes and Lessons from Top Gun Maverick<\/em> – Brian Dodd<\/a><\/div>\n
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4) A Working Kitchen <\/strong>– Just this week, I heard the term “working kitchen”<\/em> and was intrigued. My sweet little kitchen has probably not had an update (except the floor) since it was built in the 60s. It is small but quite functional. Still it is not like the kitchen I had years ago in East Tennessee that supported a growing family, lots of company, and the huge vegetable garden of my green-thumbed husband. We used to can and freeze so much until I wasn’t very gleeful with the buckets of produce he’d bring in late in summer. And maybe I’m just not feeling it, work-wise right now. Still the idea of a working kitchen – with all the food prep, in-season fruits and vegetables, baked bread cooling on the stove, and something always simmering in the slow cooker – sounds so lovely. How about you? Would you say yours is a working kitchen?<\/div>\n
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[Our youngest son’s cooking club in a working kitchen of ours in Morocco.]<\/div>\n
5 Simple Tips for Letting Kids Help in the Kitchen<\/em> – This Pilgrim Life<\/a><\/div>\n
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What Does a Working Kitchen Need?<\/em> – Donna Freedman<\/a><\/div>\n
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Kitchen Layout 101: The Work Triangle & Zones<\/em> – Leslie Eiler<\/a><\/div>\n
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10 of the Best Working Family Kitchen Ideas<\/em> – Architecture Art Designs<\/a><\/div>\n
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5) Parenting Trials and Travails – <\/strong>Those of us with children\u00a0 want to be good parents, right? Now it’s possible the parenting gene isn’t dominant in some of us (therefore we need advice\/counsel – see above). Good parenting is hugely important to help children know they are seen, soothed, safe, and secure<\/a>…and to open the future for them to be good parents as well.<\/div>\n
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We struggle sometimes with the culture where we parent. Western culture isn’t easy on parents these days. So many opinions. So many approaches. So much judgment… We are better served by searching maybe a mentor or two, or a book or two…and possibly changing those as our kids grow.<\/div>\n
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“Make the ordinary come alive”<\/em> is something we can all do for our children. I have struggled with the guilt (or shame) of not being that “good parent”…or good enough parent. Fortunately, most days, I can turn toward that negative thought and face it down.<\/div>\n
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Our kids are grown, but we have the blessing of grandkids. What I might have missed in parenting well our kiddos may well be possible with the grandparenting of these littles. Making the ordinary come alive with them…and encouraging and praying for their parents. God knew what He was doing when He placed these precious one in their hands (as He knew the same placing our kids in our hands). Whew…<\/div>\n
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That’s the 5 for this week. Please share in Comments below any favorite finds or favorite re-visits. We’d love to learn from you. Thanks for stopping by. It means the world!<\/div>\n
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“We all want progress, but if you’re on the wrong road, progress means doing an about-turn and walking back to the right road; in that case, the man who turns back soonest is the most progressive.”<\/div>\n
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Heaven In Ordinary<\/h3>\n

Because high heaven made itself so low<\/p>\n

That I might glimpse it through a stable door,<\/p>\n

Or hear it bless me through a hammer blow,<\/p>\n

And call me through the voices of the poor,<\/p>\n

Unbidden now, its hidden light breaks through<\/p>\n

Amidst the clutter of the every day,<\/p>\n

Illuminating things I thought I knew,<\/p>\n

Whose dark glass brightens, even as I pray.<\/p>\n

Then this world\u2019s walls no longer stay my eyes,<\/p>\n

A veil is lifted likewise from my heart,<\/p>\n

The moment holds me in its strange surprise,<\/p>\n

The gates of paradise are drawn apart,<\/p>\n

I see his tree, with blossom on its bough,<\/p>\n

And nothing can be ordinary now. – Malcolm Guite<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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