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See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know Him. Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like Him, because we shall see Him as He is. <\/em>– 1 John 3:1-2<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

As indeed he says in Hosea, \u201cThose who were not my people I will call \u2018my people,\u2019 and her who was not beloved I will call \u2018beloved.\u2019\u201d<\/em> – Romans 9:25<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.<\/em> – Romans 8:37-39<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

From where do we derive our identity? The parts of us that we consider strengths or even weaknesses? The opinions of others? Our accomplishments or place in society? Our performance at work or play or church? The number of likes we have on a social media platform or reads of our blog?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What if we moved through every one of our days remembering how the Lord of the universe views us?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We are His beloved<\/em>. Not out of our own worthiness from a human standpoint, but because of who He is. He loved us while we were still deep in sin (Romans 5:8<\/a>). When we confronted our sin and asked His forgiveness, God not only forgave us but also made us heirs with Christ, adopted into His family forever (Romans 8:17<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Is the Meaning of Beloved in the Bible?<\/em> – Got Questions<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beloved<\/a> <\/em>– Biblical Definition – Dwight M. Pratt<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having that immeasurable love from God, how do we get tripped up by comparisons – fretting over how others see us (or even how we see ourselves in comparison to others)? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pride. Be it self-congratulatory or self-deprecating. It’s still pride. Given how God has said Himself how He loves us, freely and unconditionally, we put such a burden on ourselves with this sin. How do we rid of it (sometimes daily, sometimes moment-by-moment)? By faith. Faith kills pride.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

“All self-exaltation [or self-demeaning, I might add] is a re-crucifixion of Christ because he died to kill pride. Every boast, therefore, mocks the suffering of Jesus. And I end on this: every humble attitude, every humble act of faith, glorifies the grace of God in Christ.”<\/em> – John Piper<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Out of our faith in the work of Jesus on the cross for me, we can die to pride. The fruit of that is humility – that work of the Holy Spirit in our lives that allows us to receive and rest in the transcendent love of God<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Writer\/theologian Tim Keller<\/a>, in his small book The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness<\/a><\/em> talks about gospel-humility. Tremendously helpful and freeing:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cC.S. Lewis<\/a> in Mere Christianity<\/a> makes a brilliant observation about gospel-humility at the very end of his chapter on pride. If we were to meet a truly humble person, Lewis says, we would never come away from meeting them thinking they were humble.<\/em>..The thing we would remember from meeting a truly gospel-humble person is how much they seemed to be totally interested in us. Because the essence of gospel-humility is not thinking more of myself or thinking less of myself, it is thinking of myself less.<\/strong> Gospel-humility is not needing to think about myself. Not needing to connect things with myself. It is an end to thoughts such as, \u2018I\u2019m in this room with these people, does that make me look good? Do I want to be here?\u2019 True gospel-humility means I stop connecting every experience, every conversation, with myself. In fact, I stop thinking about myself. The freedom of self-forgetfulness. The blessed rest that only self-forgetfulness brings.\u201d<\/em> – Tim Keller<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This has been on my heart daily this week in wrestling down thoughts of inadequacy and insignificance. Then God gave me a song on the radio: Belovedness<\/a><\/em> by singer\/songwriter Sarah Kroger<\/a>. Slayed by His love. All over again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kroger beautifully writes about this song here<\/a>. She says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Five years ago, I was introduced to a book called Life of the Beloved<\/a> by Henri Nouwen<\/a> that changed my life. The book revolves around the idea that every day we\u2019re surrounded by voices. The voices of society, negativity, lies we\u2019ve believed, our peers, etc. What would it look like if we could silence the noise and listen to the voice, that at the center of our being, calls us \u201cbeloved\u201d? While reading the book, I realized that instead of owning and living out of my belovedness, I was only owning my mistakes. My journey is far from over, but I work every day to own the truth of who I am.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our identity isn\u2019t based on our accomplishments or failings, what people think about us, or how we view ourselves in the mirror. Our identity is that we are the beloved children of a relentless Father who loves us unconditionally.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m reminded of a stained-glass window in a chapel in which I used to spend a lot of time.\u00a0The image was of Jesus holding a sheep close to his chest. This is the goal of a Christian. To be so close to the heart of the Shepherd that you hear His heartbeat and can conform your life to that rhythm. When you do this, you\u2019ll go into each day knowing you are loved, not looking for ways to earn it. This is freedom.”<\/em> – Sarah Kroger<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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[A stained glass window in Movement Church<\/a>, Richmond, Virginia]<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

God’s love for us is utterly without any merit of our own. We receive His love by remembering. Who He is and who we are in Him and alongside our brothers and sisters. Putting self in its proper place. Crucified.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Photo Credit: Heartlight, Francis of Assisi<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dave and I are so privileged right now to be in a season of community with a group of young people (20s-30s). I can’t even put into words what it’s like being in the same room with them. They are welcoming to one another as it must have been with Jesus when He sat at tables with publicans and sinners (of whom we once were). Not that these precious ones are perfect, but that isn’t the point, is it? You are just wrapped in the delight of Jesus in this place…in this space of the week with them. There is a winsomeness, a joy in discovering, a deep affection, a celebration of each one who enters the room. God has given us other communities where we’ve had this experience, and I’m grateful for each one. I hope you have such community. If not, seek it out. God doesn’t mean for us to be isolated, left to our own tough thoughts. He means to pour His love on us and He chooses to do some of that through the church.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Worship<\/a> with me…and believe true what He says about Himself and what He says about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’ve owned your fear and all your self-loathing
You’ve owned the voices inside of your head
You’ve\u2005owned\u2005the shame and\u2005reproach of your failure
It’s time to\u2005own your belovedness<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’ve owned your past and how it’s defined you
You’ve owned everything everybody else says
It’s time to hear what your Father has spoken
It’s time to own your belovedness

He says you’re mine, I smiled when I made you
I find you beautiful in every way
My love for you is fierce and unending
I’ll come to find you, whatever it takes
My beloved<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’ve owned the mess you see in the mirror
You’ve owned the lies that you’re just not enough
You’ve been so blinded by all you’re comparing
It’s time to own your belovedness<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He says you’re mine, I smiled when I made you
I find you beautiful in every way
My love for you is fierce and unending
I’ll come to find you, whatever it takes
My beloved<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are completely loved and fully known
Beloved, believe He died to make your heart His home<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And He says you’re mine, I smiled when I made you
I find you beautiful in every way
My love for you is fierce and unending
I’ll come to find you, whatever it takes
He says you’re mine, I smiled when I made you
I find you beautiful in every way
My love for you is fierce and unending
I’ll come to find you, whatever it takes
My beloved
It’s time to own your belovedness*<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lyrics to Your Belovedness<\/em> – Songwriters: Michael Farren, Tony Wood, Sarah Kroger, & Ben Shive<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

YouTube Video – Light: Behind the Songs – Belovedness<\/em> with Sarah Kroger<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beloved Meaning in the Bible<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You Are God’s Beloved<\/em> – Bishop Darlingston Johnson<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10 Beautiful Truths God Says About You<\/em> – Jeannie Myers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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