{"id":32828,"date":"2024-03-16T16:44:40","date_gmt":"2024-03-16T20:44:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=32828"},"modified":"2024-03-18T19:36:04","modified_gmt":"2024-03-18T23:36:04","slug":"saturday-short-remembering-our-chad-and-the-legacy-of-chadwick-boseman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=32828","title":{"rendered":"Saturday Short &#8211; Remembering Our Chad and the Legacy of Chadwick Boseman"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-32840\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Legacy-Our-Chad-Chadwick-Boseman.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo Credit: L) Chadwick Boseman &#8211; <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/gageskidmore\/35411712094\" target=\"_blank\">Gage Skidmore, Flickr<\/a>, R) Chad Stephens (pic taken by Deb Mills)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[This piece is adapted from <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=25918\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=25918\" target=\"_blank\">the Archives<\/a> on the 30th anniversary of my nephew Chad Stephens&#8217; death. He was 23 when he died instantly in a car accident. After so many years, I&#8217;m not sure who all have the sweet memories of Chad that his family has. As to legacy&#8230;only God knows. I was reminded today in remembering Chad of another&#8217;s legacy &#8211; the actor\/influencer <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Chadwick_Boseman\" target=\"_blank\">Chadwick Boseman<\/a>. His legacy is large and public. For both of them, Chad and Chadwick, dying sooner and harder than any of us imagined would have happened&#8230;who knows the extent of their legacy &#8211; either Chad, a young man with most of his promise still ahead of him, or the profoundly gifted Chadwick Boseman, dying in his 40s. Below you&#8217;ll find excerpts from a blog I wrote when Chadwick died, as I also remember Chad today.]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><time datetime=\"2020-08-31T10:50:01-04:00\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shock waves covered our country and the world at the news of actor and <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Black_Panther_(film)\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Black Panther<\/em><\/a> superhero \u2018s death. He was\/is a bigger-than-life figure in our culture. As we all know now, he had late-stage colon cancer since 2016 (four years prior to his death). That the public didn\u2019t know he was ill isn\u2019t a surprise, given Boseman\u2019s private nature and also the incredible production of 10 of his films from 2016 until now (one of them <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ma_Rainey%27s_Black_Bottom_(film)\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Ma Rainey\u2019s Black Bottom <\/em><\/a>released after his death). Fighting his battle with cancer at the same time, what grace, focus, and courage he displayed through all the making of those films!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/variety.com\/2020\/film\/news\/chadwick-boseman-dead-dies-black-panther-1234753232\/\">Chadwick Boseman, \u2018Black Panther\u2019 Star, Dies at&nbsp;43<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Boseman died on <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/sfgiants.mlblogs.com\/jackie-robinson-day-2020-f68964f1fdf2\" target=\"_blank\">Jackie Robinson Day<\/a> \u2013 August 28, 2020 \u2013 at the age of 43.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-embed-handler wp-block-embed-embed-handler wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QsN9aL4-mxs?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hollywoodreporter.com\/heat-vision\/black-panther-director-ryan-coogler-pens-emotional-beautiful-tribute-to-chadwick-boseman\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>\u2018Black Panther\u2019 Director Ryan Coogler Pens Emotional, Beautiful Tribute to Chadwick Boseman<\/em> \u2013 Ryan Parker, Borys Kit<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Boseman was very committed to raising the opportunity and quality of life for fellow black people. He used his work to reflect the dignity of humankind. He showed his own respect for others not only in the Marvel blockbuster Black Panther but in all his films. Several of which were biopics \u2013 two of my favorites being <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Marshall_(film)\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Marshall<\/em><\/a> (on the life of Justice Thurgood Marshall) and <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/42_(film)\" target=\"_blank\"><em>\u201c42\u201d<\/em><\/a> (on the life of baseball player Jackie Robinson). Both movies are timeless in their handling of justice for blacks in America.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-Branch-Rickey-AZ-Quotes.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"850\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-Branch-Rickey-AZ-Quotes.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-32830\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-Branch-Rickey-AZ-Quotes.jpg 850w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-Branch-Rickey-AZ-Quotes-300x141.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-Branch-Rickey-AZ-Quotes-768x361.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-Branch-Rickey-AZ-Quotes.jpg\"><\/a>Photo Credit: <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/author\/12336-Branch_Rickey\" target=\"_blank\">AZ Quotes<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>After seeing the incredible film <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Black_Panther_(film)\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Black Panther<\/em><\/a> some time ago, I was reminded of the relatively small part Boseman also played in <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Draft_Day\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Draft Day<\/em><\/a>. Two very different films, but both where he played one who took his platform to champion others. This seemed to be true of Boseman\u2019s public and private life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"624\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-1024x624.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-32831\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-1024x624.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-768x468.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Jackie-Robinson-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes.jpg 1050w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo Credit: <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/quote\/247587\" target=\"_blank\">AZ Quotes<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>After a weekend of trying to get hold of the life and character of this man from Anderson, South Carolina\u2026this man who became a Christ follower as a boy and served in his church\u2019s choir and youth group\u2026I couldn\u2019t get to sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-loving-people.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"850\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-loving-people.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-32832\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-loving-people.jpg 850w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-loving-people-300x141.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-AZ-Quotes-loving-people-768x361.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo Credit: <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/author\/53947-Chadwick_Boseman\" target=\"_blank\">AZ Quotes<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>What Boseman accomplished in his relatively short life as a public figure will last as long as we watch the movies&#8230;and longer still.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What can a regular non-celebrity do in our world gone mad? What really can this older white woman in the suburbs of a small city? What can you do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Last night, in the dark trying not to wake my husband, I grabbed my phone and wrote the following list. It came quickly. Hopefully it is understandable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Listen hard with ears, mind and heart open.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Seek to understand.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ask the question: \u201cWhat are we hearing?\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ask the question: \u201cWhat are we not hearing?\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ask the next layer of question without judging: \u201cWhat sounds true? What sounds like deception motivated by something else? How can we know?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What is the source of what we are hearing? [Sidebar: Where we get our news is often where we get our attitudes. If we take in news at all, we need a mix of views or we won\u2019t critically be able to sift for what is true\u2026or hopefully true.]<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Then\u2026<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Speak up on behalf of one another.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Stand up against evil and for the truth.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Act up? NO. Act in love.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mobilize our resources, relationships, and influence to actually make a true, lasting difference for those most vulnerable in our country.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Who has the courage to say \u201cEnough\u201d to what is hurting more than healing, to what is destroying more than building up, to what is not really for change for those who most need the change?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Boseman once <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/rollingout.com\/2020\/08\/29\/10-inspiring-quotes-from-chadwick-boseman-that-could-change-your-life\/\" target=\"_blank\">said<\/a>: <em>\u201cThe only difference between a hero and the villain is that the villain chooses to use that power in a way that is selfish and hurts other people.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Boseman&#8217;s life reflected his faith in Jesus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therapist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kaleevandegrift.com\/about-me\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kalee Vandergrift-Blackwell<\/a> wrote a beautiful piece (below) on <strong><em>\u201ca brown, immigrant, refugee, colonized Jesus\u201d.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theallendercenter.org\/2019\/10\/know-jesus-brown\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Did You Know Jesus Is Brown?<\/em> \u2013 Kalee Vandergrift<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Jesus died at the hands of the political and religious leaders of the day, but\u2026He did not die a victim. He gave his life in all its beauty, courage, and truth \u2013 for our sakes\u2026and He gave his life, even for the political and religious leaders of the day.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When He <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=24830\" target=\"_blank\">called out<\/a> the wrong motives of religious leaders and <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=24822\" target=\"_blank\">turned over<\/a> the tables of opportunists, everything He did, He did in love. He calls us, His followers, to do the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jesus calls us to <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianity.com\/wiki\/bible\/love-your-neighbor-as-yourself-bible-meaning-of-mark-12-31.html\" target=\"_blank\">love our neighbors<\/a>\u2026and even to <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/matthew\/5-44.htm\" target=\"_blank\">love our enemies<\/a>. We aren\u2019t allowed to just take sides\u2026we are to full-bore, wide open love people \u2013 to recognize, respect, and validate in all we do the worth, dignity, and God-breathed humanity of all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is our legacy\u2026this is what I want to have the courage and the depth of love to leave when my life is over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not complacency. Not comfort. Not smugness. Not arrogance. Not blaming another party or one president over another (if there\u2019s blame it extends much farther\u2026). Not violence. Not isolation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So\u2026that is the burn I got this weekend after taking in and grieving over the loss of Chadwick Boseman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One last <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/rollingout.com\/2020\/08\/29\/10-inspiring-quotes-from-chadwick-boseman-that-could-change-your-life\/\" target=\"_blank\">quote<\/a> from Boseman that is especially poignant and inspiring right now is this:<strong><em> \u201cWhen I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, \u2018I used everything You gave me.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-Gage-Skidmore-2-Flickr.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-Gage-Skidmore-2-Flickr.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-32833\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-Gage-Skidmore-2-Flickr.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-Gage-Skidmore-2-Flickr-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Blog-Chadwick-Boseman-Gage-Skidmore-2-Flickr-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo Credit: <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/gageskidmore\/36245604005\" target=\"_blank\">Gage Skidmore, Flickr<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>________________________________________________________________________________________________________________<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In remembering Chad, also, I&#8217;m reminded of his legacy&#8230;not as publicized as a great actor who died too early&#8230;but of a young man who had also given his life to Christ. A young man with great heart and strong convictions. A young man who thought of others. A young man who lavished love and joy on all of us, just entering the room and then staying in the room. A young man who could flip the tension of a family dispute&#8230;just being present, by showing up over and over, even in the uncomfortable and imperfect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/IMG_0026.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"756\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/IMG_0026-756x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-32842\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/IMG_0026-756x1024.jpg 756w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/IMG_0026-222x300.jpg 222w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/IMG_0026-768x1040.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/IMG_0026.jpg 1040w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 756px) 100vw, 756px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever our influence or audience &#8211; the world as with Chadwick Boseman, or a much smaller sphere as our Chad &#8211; we all leave a legacy. We learn from those who&#8217;ve gone before us. Because of what Jesus did for us, and knowing that both Chad and Chadwick received Jesus for themselves, we will see them again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That makes today a little less hard and a whole lot more hopeful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/author\/53947-Chadwick_Boseman\" target=\"_blank\">Chadwick Boseman \u2013 AZ Quotes<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rollingout.com\/2020\/08\/29\/10-inspiring-quotes-from-chadwick-boseman-that-could-change-your-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>10 Inspiring Quotes From Chadwick Boseman That Could Change Your Life<\/em> \u2013 A. R. Shaw<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=4VSx2E7WE50\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">YouTube Video <em>\u2013 Chadwick Boseman Tribute<\/em> \u2013 Marvel<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[This piece is adapted from the Archives on the 30th anniversary of my nephew Chad Stephens&#8217; death. He was 23 when he died instantly in a car accident. After so many years, I&#8217;m not sure who all have the sweet memories of Chad that his family has. As to legacy&#8230;only God knows. 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