{"id":3652,"date":"2015-06-29T15:28:28","date_gmt":"2015-06-29T19:28:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=3652"},"modified":"2015-09-14T16:03:01","modified_gmt":"2015-09-14T20:03:01","slug":"do-over-rescue-monday-reinvent-your-work-and-never-get-stuck-by-jon-acuff-notes-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=3652","title":{"rendered":"Do Over &#8211; Rescue Monday, Reinvent Your Work, and Never Get Stuck &#8211; by Jon Acuff &#8211; Notes (Part 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3655\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-2.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Do Over #2\" width=\"2688\" height=\"1520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-2.jpg 2688w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-2-300x170.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-2-1024x579.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2688px) 100vw, 2688px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jon Acuff is a writer about stuff that matters to us &#8211; our jobs and careers. How we spend much of our waking life can make for a joyful, fulfilling journey. Or, on the flip side, it can be an excruciatingly dull and seemingly pointless work life with too little to show for it. What should give hope to any of us in that latter camp is that we can &#8220;do over&#8221; our work lives. Anyone can.<\/p>\n<p>If you are the midst of a do over of your job or career, Jon Acuff is a guy who&#8217;s been there. In his book by the title <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1591847613?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=1591847613&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20\" target=\"_blank\">Do Over<\/a><\/em>, he gives great counsel about how to get started and how to persevere to the goal. He&#8217;s also funny, which helps a lot.<\/p>\n<p>As hard as we work to excel on our jobs and to &#8220;make good&#8221; in our careers, we rarely have good mentoring in that. Jon is such a mentor. He&#8217;s\u00a0fielded a few\u00a0career ceilings, bumps, and jumps. With those, he&#8217;s also\u00a0availed himself of\u00a0career opportunities that we could experience as well&#8230;if we&#8217;re willing to do what&#8217;s necessary.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m reading <em>Do Over<\/em> right now, being in the midst of a career bump and jump myself. Then there are some younger people\u00a0in my life, skilled and gifted, who are struggling also with next steps.\u00a0 If we attend to Jon&#8217;s wisdom on these pages, those next steps could get us where we hope to go.<\/p>\n<p>In his book, Jon describes what he&#8217;s defined as a <strong>Career Savings Account<\/strong> (CSA). It consists of four resources that we bring to our career. They are relationships, skills, character and hustle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Career Savings Acct . = Relationships + Skills + Character\u00a0x Hustle*<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;Relationships = Who you know. The gang you lock arms with during your career.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Skills = What you do. The tools you use to build your career.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Character = Who you are. The mortar that holds the entire CSA together.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Hustle = How you work. The fuel that pushes you to do the things other people don&#8217;t, so you can enjoy the results other people won&#8217;t.&#8221;*<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all heard the expression, &#8220;It&#8217;s not what you know, but who you know.&#8221; This is partly true, but more true is investing all of <strong>who we are<\/strong> into our work &#8211; our skills, relationships, character, and hustle. What needs to happen\u00a0in pursuing a career? A work we could love to do for life? It is in\u00a0bringing to bear not just one, two, or three of these resources, but all four of them. This is the key, says Jon Acuff.<\/p>\n<p>The book <em>Do Over<\/em> has several\u00a0strong visuals,\u00a0\u00a0helpful for those of us who need to &#8220;see&#8221; concepts to understand them well. The chart below demonstrates the four resources we invest, and where they are most valuable depending on the career situation. Whether it was a voluntary jump to a different job or an involuntary firing or layoff, for example. Or whether the experience was negative or positive.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-2.jpg\">\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3657\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Do Over\" width=\"1509\" height=\"1726\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over.jpg 1509w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-262x300.jpg 262w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-895x1024.jpg 895w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1509px) 100vw, 1509px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Acuff writes, &#8220;When you hit a ceiling it is your &#8220;<strong>skills<\/strong>&#8221; that will be the hammer that helps you break through. &#8220;<strong>Character<\/strong>&#8221; is the investment in the CSA that will most greatly impact your ability to have a successful Career Jump. [With career opportunities], &#8220;<strong>hustle<\/strong>&#8221; is the investment that will help you make the most of these unexpected moments. [With Career Bumps], &#8220;<strong>relationships<\/strong>&#8221; are critical because community is what will carry us through challenges like this.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>However, don&#8217;t forget, whatever your situation, maximizing all four resources could mean the difference in that opportunity coming your way&#8230;or to someone else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Warning: Two Things Could Ruin Your Career Do Over &#8211; Fear and Complacency. <\/strong>Acuff describes these as tag-team partners in a wrestling match. When you have reasoned with yourself well enough that fear backs off, then complacency can set in on you. Either of these could sideline you in a situation that drains the life out of you but you don&#8217;t think you can do anything to change it. The truth is, you always can.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;Great lives are very rarely created in great comfort&#8221; <\/strong>(Jon Acuff). You may battle complacency\u00a0every day and fear every night. Still, you can do what it takes to position yourself for the lifework of your dreams. We believed it as children, and we can recapture that zeal as adults, if we&#8217;re willing.<\/p>\n<p>Jon Acuff has given me greater hope&#8230;and I&#8217;ve only finished page 23 of the book! If you know you need a change in your work life, get a copy of this book. If you financially or emotionally are not in a place where you can or are willing, take advantage of what I&#8217;m learning.<\/p>\n<p>Build your career savings account as Jon has already encouraged. He also lists two things you can do immediately, to start turning things around at work.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;If you want to have a better job right this second, that&#8217;s possible. All you have to do is choose your attitude and adjust your expectations.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Acuff makes the distinction of <strong>choosing your attitude<\/strong> rather than changing it. On the job today, you can choose to have a decent attitude. You can choose to not be smug or cynical. You can choose not to complain. You can choose to treat your coworkers, boss, and customers like they&#8217;re rock stars. Your attitude is up to you. All through the day, you choose how you act and react.\u00a0 You don&#8217;t necessarily go with your feelings or what you think they deserve. You determine to treat people in good faith. That choosing has huge dividends in your current work situation and building toward the next.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, Acuff says to\u00a0<strong>adjust your expectations<\/strong>. &#8220;What are you expecting your job to do for you? Take three minutes and write down what your expectations are for work. And then, take another three minutes and write down the real ones because you probably just lied to yourself a little bit&#8230;write them down and then find the right home for them [either at work, at home, in a hobby, or other investment of your time\/energy].&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve learned so far. In weeks ahead I&#8217;ll put up another set of notes or so. Jon goes into depth, through his book,\u00a0in each of the investments (relationships, skills, character, and hustle). I&#8217;ve looked ahead and have my index cards already for\u00a0his next assignment. Hope you learn along with me&#8230;and go for it!<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t give up. Our lives are so short. Be about what you were put on this Earth for&#8230;we need you, right where you&#8217;re supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-Jon-Acuff.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3664\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-Jon-Acuff.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Do Over - Jon Acuff\" width=\"331\" height=\"221\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-Jon-Acuff.jpg 331w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-Jon-Acuff-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 331px) 100vw, 331px\" \/><\/a>Jon Acuff<\/p>\n<p>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.churchleaders.com\/pastors\/pastor-articles\/151801-10-leadership-questions-with-jon-acuff.html\" target=\"_blank\">ChurchLeaders.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>*<a href=\"http:\/\/acuff.me\/do-over\/\" target=\"_blank\"><u><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\">Start Your DO OVER today! with Jon Acuff<\/span><\/u><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/goinswriter.com\/do-over\/\" target=\"_blank\">How to Do a Do Over &#8211; Interview with Jon Acuff by Jeff Goins<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.book-pal.com\/business\/jon-acuff-do-over-book-review\" target=\"_blank\">Why Jon Acuff&#8217;s <em>Do Over<\/em> is for Everyone<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thewaiterspad.com\/2015\/04\/15\/106-jon-acuff\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jon Acuff &#8211; <u><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\">The Waiter&#8217;s Pad<\/span><\/u>\u00a0&#8211; Unofficial Notes from the James Altucher Podcast<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/catherine-newhouse\/why-everyone-needs-a-do-o_b_7022638.html\" target=\"_blank\">Why Everyone Needs a Do Over &#8211; Q &amp; A with Jon Acuff<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Never-Too-Late-Musical-Story\/dp\/0201567636\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Never Too Late<\/em> <em>&#8211; My Musical Life Story<\/em> by John Holt<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3656\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-3.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Do Over #3\" width=\"2400\" height=\"1298\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-3.jpg 2400w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-3-300x162.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Blog-Do-Over-3-1024x554.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2400px) 100vw, 2400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jon Acuff is a writer about stuff that matters to us &#8211; our jobs and careers. How we spend much of our waking life can make for a joyful, fulfilling journey. Or, on the flip side, it can be an excruciatingly dull and seemingly pointless work life with too little to show for it. 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