{"id":4451,"date":"2015-08-02T22:11:23","date_gmt":"2015-08-03T02:11:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=4451"},"modified":"2015-08-03T07:33:42","modified_gmt":"2015-08-03T11:33:42","slug":"going-to-vs-being-church-its-not-just-about-sunday-but-sunday-matters-too","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=4451","title":{"rendered":"Going to vs. Being Church &#8211; It&#8217;s Not Just About Sunday, But Sunday Matters, Too"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-8.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4464\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-8.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Attending vs. Being Church 8\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-8.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-8-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/a><em>Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. <span id=\"en-ESV-30141\" class=\"text Heb-10-24\">And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,<\/span> <span id=\"en-ESV-30142\" class=\"text Heb-10-25\">not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. &#8211; <\/span><\/em><span id=\"en-ESV-30142\" class=\"text Heb-10-25\"><a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/hebrews\/10-24.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Hebrews 10:23-25<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>This morning,\u00a0I was heading out of my neighborhood, later than usual, and on my way to gather with my church family. I carefully passed by this\u00a0tiny little girl pedaling her bike alongside her dad who was walking their dog. Sunday morning. No plans for church, it seemed. It made me a little sad.<\/p>\n<p>I was late myself, so\u00a0it seemed clear they weren&#8217;t\u00a0attending a church this morning.\u00a0I wondered,\u00a0turning out\u00a0of the neighborhood, what idea\u00a0that little girl had of church. Then it hit me that I was unconsciously <strong>defining church as attending vs. being<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>God in Scripture does not define church as an event or a place, but rather a people. We are to gather (<a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/acts\/2-43.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Acts 2:42, 46-47<\/a>) as His people &#8211;\u00a0 to encourage each other, to serve and pray for one another, to worship God, and to support the work of the church (not the place as much as\u00a0the people). <strong>There is a gathering of the church, but there is also a scattering of the church.<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4465\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-5.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Attending vs. Being Church 5\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1193\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-5.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-5-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-5-1024x679.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-church-6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4468\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-church-6.jpg\" alt=\"Processed with VSCOcam with f2 preset\" width=\"1815\" height=\"1137\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-church-6.jpg 1815w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-church-6-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-church-6-1024x641.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1815px) 100vw, 1815px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As we go out\u00a0through the\u00a0week, being the church, we are\u00a0commanded by God to love Him and to love each other. (<a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/matthew\/22-38.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Matthew 22:37-40<\/a>) Why a command? <strong>Our default is self.<\/strong> In His kindness, God points us to an upward focus and an outward focus.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8220;A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.\u00a0\u00a0 <span class=\"highl\">By this <strong>all men will know that<\/strong> <strong>you are My disciples, if you have love for one another<\/strong>.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0&#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/john\/13-35.htm\" target=\"_blank\">John 13:34-35<\/a><\/span><\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4466\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-3.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Attending vs. Being Church 3\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-3.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/BLog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4467\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/BLog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-7.jpg\" alt=\"Crossover Parkville Baptist baseball clinic Stephen Arrington (yellow shirt), Suffolk VA, FBC Monroe, outreach pastor\" width=\"4200\" height=\"2618\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/BLog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-7.jpg 4200w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/BLog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-7-300x187.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/BLog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-7-1024x638.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4200px) 100vw, 4200px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4469\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church.jpg\" alt=\"Victor Schloss, SEND City Coordinator for San Diego. With Jason Esparza in gray t-shirt, Stephen Dixon in white and Rachel Field.\" width=\"1200\" height=\"1800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Attending-vs.-Being-Church-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As our culture trends more and more toward\u00a0being post-Christian, we as believers in Christ must make more intentional choices regarding church.* Not making a decision <em>is<\/em> making a decision.\u00a0 <strong>Are we attending church, not attending church, or being church?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Attending church maybe allows us to check something off our lists, but it&#8217;s not what being a true follower of Christ is. In fact, just attending is difficult to continue because our hearts and lives are not invested. It becomes easy, with all the distractions of life,\u00a0to just not go.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Not attending church <\/strong>doesn&#8217;t get us to the place of <strong>being church <\/strong>either<strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0When we make a series of decisions where we\u00a0essentially become\u00a0unchurched, we are in danger of falling away from God and His people. This is where the urging in Hebrews 10 (at top) is so vital.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being church is what God calls us to ultimately. <\/strong>He means for us to gather and He means to send us out.<\/p>\n<p><em>And the scroll of the prophet Isaiah was given to him [Jesus]. He unrolled the scroll and found the place where it was written,<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"poetry top-1\">\n<p class=\"line\"><em><span id=\"en-ESV-25073\" class=\"text Luke-4-18\"><span class=\"woj\">\u201cThe Spirit of the Lord is upon me,<\/span><\/span><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"text Luke-4-18\"><span class=\"woj\">because he has anointed me\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"text Luke-4-18\"><span class=\"woj\">to proclaim good news to the poor. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"text Luke-4-18\"><span class=\"woj\">He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"text Luke-4-18\"><span class=\"woj\">and recovering of sight to the blind,\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"text Luke-4-18\"><span class=\"woj\">to set at liberty those who are oppressed, <\/span><\/span><\/span><span id=\"en-ESV-25074\" class=\"text Luke-4-19\"><span class=\"woj\">to proclaim the year of the Lord&#8217;s favor.\u201d &#8211; <\/span><\/span><\/em><span id=\"en-ESV-25074\" class=\"text Luke-4-19\"><span class=\"woj\"><a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/luke\/4-18.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Luke 4:17-19<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Being church means so much more than just\u00a0being church attenders. It means that we are\u00a0part of a group of Christ-followers. Partners. Both locally and globally. Loving God and each other deeply and taking that love to our neighbors and the nations.<\/p>\n<p>The little girl on her bike, and her daddy beside her,\u00a0might delight in this idea of church&#8230;and the God of this church.<\/p>\n<p>[Jesus speaking] <em>Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age. <\/em>&#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/matthew\/28-19.htm\" target=\"_blank\"><u><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\">Matthew 28:19-20<\/span><\/u><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.liveoakschurch.org\/Live%20Oaks%20Community%20Church%20SALT%20SHAKER%20SLIDES-Wks%201-2-3.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Salt Shaker Ministry: Being the Church vs. Going to Church<\/em>\u00a0&#8211; Live Oaks Church &#8211; Powerpoint &amp; Bible Study<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kateandre.com\/2013\/07\/25\/going-to-vs-being-church-edition\/\" target=\"_blank\">Going To vs. Being [Church Edition]<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mattdabbs.com\/2008\/05\/01\/doing-church-vs-being-church\/\" target=\"_blank\">Doing Church vs. Being Church<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/messages\/the-local-church-minimum-vs-maximum\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Local Church &#8211; Minimum vs. Maximum<\/em> by John Piper<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Dont-Go-Church-Am\/dp\/1490820760\" target=\"_blank\"><em>I Don&#8217;t Go to Church &#8211; I Am the Church<\/em> by David E. Bish<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/oneragamuffin.wordpress.com\/2011\/07\/31\/going-to-church-vs-being-the-church\/\" target=\"_blank\">Going to Church vs. Being the Church &#8211; RagamuffinGospelFan<\/a><\/p>\n<p>*<a href=\"http:\/\/www.churchleaders.com\/pastors\/pastor-articles\/139575-7-startling-facts-an-up-close-look-at-church-attendance-in-america.html\" target=\"_blank\">7 Startling Facts: An Up Close Look at Church Attendance in America<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bible.ca\/g-weekly-attendance-wrong-reasons.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Attending Church for the Wrong Reasons<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ccsouthbay.org\/blog\/church-or-jesus\" target=\"_blank\">Do You Go to Church or Do You Go to Jesus?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gotquestions.org\/church-attendance.html\" target=\"_blank\">Why Is Church Attendance\/Going to Church Important<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Photo Credits (above) &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bpnews.net\/photos\/\" target=\"_blank\">bpnews.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-4474\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Church\" width=\"222\" height=\"393\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church.jpg 1520w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church-170x300.jpg 170w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church-579x1024.jpg 579w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 222px) 100vw, 222px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church-People.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-4475\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church-People.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Church People\" width=\"222\" height=\"393\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church-People.jpg 1520w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church-People-170x300.jpg 170w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-Church-People-579x1024.jpg 579w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 222px) 100vw, 222px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=4451\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Going to vs. Being Church &#8211; It&#8217;s Not Just About Sunday, But Sunday Matters, Too<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1447,799,183,794,440,439,50,33,433],"tags":[1696,1698,1702,1697,1699,1835,1117,1189,1700,1701,1703],"class_list":["post-4451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bible","category-church-2","category-culture-religion","category-faithfulness","category-give","category-go","category-god","category-inspired","category-pray","tag-attending-church","tag-being-church","tag-church-attendance","tag-doing-church","tag-gathering","tag-jesus","tag-john-piper","tag-love-one-another","tag-scattering","tag-sent-out","tag-the-local-church"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-19N","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4451","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4451"}],"version-history":[{"count":31,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4451\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4491,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4451\/revisions\/4491"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4451"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4451"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4451"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}