{"id":6454,"date":"2015-11-08T14:39:43","date_gmt":"2015-11-08T19:39:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=6454"},"modified":"2015-11-09T08:29:58","modified_gmt":"2015-11-09T13:29:58","slug":"pixars-inside-out-and-a-second-thought-on-joy-sadness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=6454","title":{"rendered":"Pixar&#8217;s Inside Out &#8211; and a Second Thought on Joy &#038; Sadness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Blog-Inside-Out-Theology-of-Sadness-scpr.org_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6456\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Blog-Inside-Out-Theology-of-Sadness-scpr.org_.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Inside Out - Theology of Sadness - scpr.org\" width=\"770\" height=\"453\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Blog-Inside-Out-Theology-of-Sadness-scpr.org_.jpg 770w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Blog-Inside-Out-Theology-of-Sadness-scpr.org_-300x176.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.<\/em> &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/psalms\/30-5.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Psalm 30:5<span class=\"p\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><span class=\"highl\">&#8220;Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.<\/span>&#8220;<\/em> &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/biblehub.com\/matthew\/5-4.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Matthew 5:4<\/a><\/p>\n<p>My husband and I watched Disney\/Pixar&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B00ZZMERJS?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=B00ZZMERJS&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;redirect=true&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Inside Out<\/em> <\/a>this weekend. It was so stressful. We wondered how children managed coping with\u00a0the anxiousness of the story. Riley, the heroine of the film, is\u00a0an 11y\/o who moved with her parents far away from her hometown. The story tells how she deals with that move with the help of her emotions (5 in particular &#8211; Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, and Disgust).<\/p>\n<p>Happy, happy, happy little Joy is\u00a0the moon-faced, darling emotion of Riley&#8217;s. The tension in the story is Joy&#8217;s attempt at damage control\u00a0as little Sadness begins coloring some of Riley&#8217;s happy memories &#8220;blue&#8221;. The plot twists and turns as Joy tries to right Riley&#8217;s world. \u00a0She is pulled into a journey with Sadness alongside and spends most of the film trying to get back to Riley&#8217;s &#8220;presence of mind&#8221;. Meanwhile, Anger, Fear, and Disgust do what they can to help Riley maneuver through her day&#8230;without Joy and Sadness&#8217;s help. It&#8217;s a scary prospect.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m thinking children must get caught up in the adventure, the mesmerizing visuals and the\u00a0familiar faces of these emotions. For me, it was just stressful.<\/p>\n<p>I have a huge respect and admiration for <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=6154\" target=\"_blank\">Ed Catmull <\/a>after hearing him speak at Global Leadership Summit 2015. Catmull\u00a0heads the\u00a0work of Disney\/Pixar Animation Studios. Dave recently read his book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0812993012?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=0812993012&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Creativity, Inc.<\/em><\/a> and so enjoyed it that I&#8217;m reading it also.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-GLobal-Leadership-Summit-Ed-Catmull-by-brainpickings.org_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4608\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-GLobal-Leadership-Summit-Ed-Catmull-by-brainpickings.org_.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - GLobal Leadership Summit - Ed Catmull by brainpickings.org\" width=\"600\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-GLobal-Leadership-Summit-Ed-Catmull-by-brainpickings.org_.jpg 600w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Blog-GLobal-Leadership-Summit-Ed-Catmull-by-brainpickings.org_-300x254.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/Blog - GLobal Leadership Summit - Ed Catmull by brainpickings.org\" target=\"_blank\">Brainpickings.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Watching <em>Inside Out, <\/em>my mind wandered to the creative teams at Disney\/Pixar. <strong>What were they thinking?!<\/strong> Then later, I had second thoughts on the film&#8230;after watching bits again as our youngest son, visiting over the weekend,\u00a0watched it on pay-per-view.<\/p>\n<p>He, too, also thought it was stressful, but as I watched his face, watching the film&#8230;I saw what we might have missed as older ones watching. Wonder, surprise, vexation, empathy. In the strong face of this young man, I saw the response to the film maybe hoped for by the creators. The audience identifying with the film&#8230;and in the end&#8230;understanding and a sweet resolution of the seeming conflict between Joy and Sadness.<\/p>\n<p>On that second watching (both the film and watching my son watching), I liked <em>Inside Out<\/em> much better. It helped me to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/?gws_rd=ssl#q=%22Sadness...Mom+and+Dad%2C+the+team...came+because+of+sadness.%22\" target=\"_blank\">Google<\/a>\u00a0that great &#8220;Aha!&#8221; moment of Joy&#8217;s &#8211; when she discovered:<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>&#8220;Sadness&#8230;Mom and Dad, the team&#8230;they came to help because of sadness.&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No spoilers for those of you who haven&#8217;t seen the film, but for me, a couple of articles really resonated (see below). I struggle personally with sadness which shades the joy I also experience.\u00a0 Then that same joy re-colors the sadness, bringing perspective and healing. Josh Larsen, in an <a href=\"http:\/\/thinkchristian.reframemedia.com\/inside-out-and-a-theology-of-sadness?hsCtaTracking=e2c6dc57-046a-4677-8db8-6bc2442cf173%7C5d4f2074-356e-4d4a-9557-3a0798fe7f50&amp;utm_campaign=TC_Engagement&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;_hsenc=p2ANqtz-_0lObAFZg059Enw4AtmPMkSJfxtVw8D_xkVwFyA7MKtDodRS49gEvSiTo1kU1g_M6oYIrWHQlB_S0QMLJFWMV7Pj0MCQ&amp;_hsmi=23522624&amp;utm_source=hs_email&amp;utm_content=23522624\" target=\"_blank\">article<\/a> on the <a href=\"http:\/\/thinkchristian.reframemedia.com\/inside-out-and-a-theology-of-sadness?hsCtaTracking=e2c6dc57-046a-4677-8db8-6bc2442cf173%7C5d4f2074-356e-4d4a-9557-3a0798fe7f50&amp;utm_campaign=TC_Engagement&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;_hsenc=p2ANqtz-_0lObAFZg059Enw4AtmPMkSJfxtVw8D_xkVwFyA7MKtDodRS49gEvSiTo1kU1g_M6oYIrWHQlB_S0QMLJFWMV7Pj0MCQ&amp;_hsmi=23522624&amp;utm_source=hs_email&amp;utm_content=23522624\" target=\"_blank\">Think Christian <\/a>website, wrote beautifully about this film&#8217;s message (at a deeper level):<\/p>\n<p><em>It\u2019s a rich subject \u2013 one mined with Pixar\u2019s usual combination of wit, intelligence and emotional resonance \u2013 and also one that echoes a Christian understanding of the human experience. Christianity, after all, is an expression of joy in response to &#8211; not in denial of &#8211; deep sadness&#8230;we can\u2019t fully understand our place in God\u2019s story unless we\u2019ve experienced sadness of some sort. It isn\u2019t until we recognize the deep sorrow of this world &#8211; the Fall, and our perpetuation of its effects &#8211; that we can fully appreciate the almost laughable generosity of Christ\u2019s redemptive act. And only then will we know true joy, the fairy-tale ending that is God\u2019s restoration of His creation.<\/em> &#8211; Josh Larsen<\/p>\n<p>Toward\u00a0the end of the film, there&#8217;s a lovely moment between Riley and her parents. She finally comes to terms with her deep sadness in moving away from home. It&#8217;s a place all of us have been if we linger with a person grieving&#8230;a person who knows we love them.<\/p>\n<p>I was reminded how sadness sometimes \u00a0overtakes us and it&#8217;s best confronted head-on in all its real&#8230;on-another&#8217;s-shoulder&#8230;Riley, tears spilling down her face, doesn&#8217;t hold back as she pours out her grief to her parents. As they\u00a0cradle her into their arms they, too, confess their own sadness. \u00a0Then it happens&#8230;that last wet-faced shudder into Daddy&#8217;s chest; that deep sigh&#8230;all cried out.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what we love about Disney\/Pixar&#8230;and the God-given emotions of joy and sadness&#8230;especially when love is in the mix.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thinkchristian.reframemedia.com\/inside-out-and-a-theology-of-sadness?hsCtaTracking=e2c6dc57-046a-4677-8db8-6bc2442cf173%7C5d4f2074-356e-4d4a-9557-3a0798fe7f50&amp;utm_campaign=TC_Engagement&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;_hsenc=p2ANqtz-_0lObAFZg059Enw4AtmPMkSJfxtVw8D_xkVwFyA7MKtDodRS49gEvSiTo1kU1g_M6oYIrWHQlB_S0QMLJFWMV7Pj0MCQ&amp;_hsmi=23522624&amp;utm_source=hs_email&amp;utm_content=23522624\" target=\"_blank\">Inside Out and a Theology of Sadness &#8211; Josh Larsen, Think Christian<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scpr.org\/programs\/offramp\/2015\/06\/17\/43327\/many-critics-love-pixar-s-inside-out-not-this-guy\/\" target=\"_blank\">Many critics love Pixar&#8217;s &#8216;Inside Out.&#8217; Not this guy.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt2096673\/quotes\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Inside Out<\/em> Quotes<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vulture.com\/2015\/06\/all-15-pixar-movies-ranked-from-worst-to-best.html\" target=\"_blank\">All 15 Pixar Movies, Ranked From Worst to Best<\/a><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"INSIDE OUT | Trailer 2 - UK | Official Disney UK\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/_MC3XuMvsDI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning. &#8211; Psalm 30:5 &#8220;Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.&#8220; &#8211; Matthew 5:4 My husband and I watched Disney\/Pixar&#8217;s Inside Out this weekend. It was so stressful. We wondered how children managed coping with\u00a0the anxiousness of the story. Riley, the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=6454\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Pixar&#8217;s Inside Out &#8211; and a Second Thought on Joy &#038; Sadness<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[810,690,34,1704,1705,1820,1742,1741,2307,1436,1733,50,1435,795,1743,1001],"tags":[733,2312,2309,1751,1527,2308,2310,175,674,2311],"class_list":["post-6454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-good-gifts","category-babies-children","category-books","category-communication","category-conversations","category-creativity","category-disney-animation","category-ed-catmull","category-emotions","category-fathers","category-global-leadership-summit","category-god","category-growing-up","category-love-2","category-pixar","category-stories","tag-anger","tag-disgust","tag-disneypixar-animation-studios","tag-ed-catmull","tag-fear","tag-inside-out","tag-josh-larsen","tag-joy","tag-sadness","tag-think-christian"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-1G6","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6454","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6454"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6454\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6477,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6454\/revisions\/6477"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6454"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6454"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6454"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}