{"id":7308,"date":"2016-01-01T12:52:21","date_gmt":"2016-01-01T17:52:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=7308"},"modified":"2016-12-09T23:14:07","modified_gmt":"2016-12-10T04:14:07","slug":"5-friday-faves-plus-a-bonus-new-year-fruit-in-season-shepherding-people-decluttering-thrift-shops-self-awareness-and-a-playlist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=7308","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves Plus a Bonus – New Year, Fruit in Season, Shepherding People, Decluttering & Thrift Shops, Self-awareness, and a Playlist"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Happy New Year! Thanks for stopping by. It means a lot. Here are 5 plus 1 faves of this week. Hope you find them helpful and\/or refreshing for your first day of 2016.<\/strong><\/p>\n

1) New Year Storms<\/strong> – Leslie Leyland Fields<\/a> wrote\u00a0a fascinating piece<\/a> for us as we face\u00a0the\u00a0New Year. She\u00a0reflects on\u00a0the Apostle Peter’s experience of a stormy sea and applies that to our personal storms. The One who calms storms is the same today as then.\u00a0 We all hope for a fair weather year, but staying storm-ready is wisdom.\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: NaturePhotoBlog.com – Theo Bosboom<\/a><\/p>\n

\"2009<\/a>Our son Daniel in Scotland<\/p>\n

2)\u00a0Fruit in Season<\/strong> – When we first moved to Egypt, I was happily surprised at the long growing season of this desert nation. With irrigation from the Nile River, and the hot sunny days, we had yummy fruit for many months. Fruit that, in the US, we would have too briefly. Large luscious strawberries in December were a special treat in Egypt.\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: Fresh Plaza<\/a><\/p>\n

Mandarin season in Morocco\u00a0is also very special. Ripe from the tree. Sweet and perfectly juicy. It’s mandarin season now. Happy New Year!\"2015<\/a>Photo Credit: Sarah Storm<\/p>\n

3) Shepherding People<\/strong> – Think of those for whom you steward leadership. Shepherding does not just apply to pastors and churches, but to parents and children, and to those in our charge in the workplace. Abraham Kuyper<\/a> writes<\/a> of our\u00a0example of the shepherds watching their sheep on the night of Jesus’ birthday. “If the shepherds in Ephrata\u2019s fields had not been faithfully involved in keeping watch over their flock, they would have seen nothing of that night\u2019s brilliance, witnessed nothing of the Lord\u2019s glory shining around them, heard no angel song, and would never have paid homage to God\u2019s Holy Child. Doesn\u2019t the same apply to you? The heavens still sometimes open.” It is often in the ordinary faithfulnesses of the day that we see the most extraordinary…if we keep watch.\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: BPNews.net<\/a><\/p>\n

4) Decluttering & Favorite Thrift Shops <\/strong>– If December doesn’t drive us to look at our household clutter, January sure will. I struggle with this. Holding on to beloved books and sentimental bits of this or that. Or those precious piles of “things I may need later”. The article 200 Things to Throw Away Today <\/a><\/em>was very helpful for me this week. She gives a tremendous array of things I can work with, and there is no judging. Whew! You also don’t have to “throw away” all these items because there are various avenues through which you can recycle, repurpose, or reuse (including local agencies that help house the homeless, for instance). Two of my favorite small business thrift shops in our neighborhood are 2BInspired<\/a> and Nomadic Attic<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: 2BInspired<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: Nomadic Attic<\/a><\/p>\n

Decluttering: 300+ Things to Throw Away Today<\/em> – City Waste Services<\/a><\/p>\n

5) Self-Awareness<\/strong>\u00a0–\u00a0Matt Monge of The Mojo Company published a great pre-New Year article on 13 Questions to Increase Your Self-Awareness<\/a>. Our default\u00a0with people\u00a0is to scrutinize those around us as to how they are doing life, work, relationships. Self-awareness seemed a negative thing because anything with “self” in front of the word must not be good. Right? Wrong! The questions Matt presents are so insightful. Two of my favorites were: Did I demonstrate vulnerability today? If not, why not? What is the root cause of my reluctance to do so?<\/strong>\u00a0and\u00a0Was my leadership today reflective of someone who views his role as one of a steward rather than one who views the team and organization as something to be used for my benefit?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I want to go into 2016\u00a0having done my homework such\u00a0that, at least, I have looked at my own heart, thinking, and motivations…first! Don’t miss this gem of a piece before heading back to work on Monday.\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: The Mojo Company<\/a><\/p>\n

6) A Playlist<\/strong> – What a delight when someone else does the work of putting together a playlist. I still have some audiocassettes, from our days in Egypt, that local friends put together with our pop music favorites of that time. Mary Carver<\/a> (co-author with Sarah Frankl of the new book Choose Joy<\/a>) <\/em>put together a playlist to take us into the New Year. Every one will make you smile, dance around, or just have a mind break to reset toward job. Enjoy!<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Blog<\/a>Photo Credit: GivingUpOnPerfect.com<\/a><\/p>\n

The video below is a bonus bonus.<\/strong> It’s been viewed a lot, but I only saw it yesterday. It reminded me of a book I read years ago by television producer Bob Briner. In Roaring Lambs,<\/a> <\/em>he challenged us to use whatever profession we are in to be “culture-altering” for good. These hair stylists\u00a0are sure an example of that. Lovely.<\/p>\n