{"id":7539,"date":"2016-01-15T07:58:12","date_gmt":"2016-01-15T12:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=7539"},"modified":"2016-01-15T08:07:01","modified_gmt":"2016-01-15T13:07:01","slug":"5-friday-faves-winter-in-the-middle-east-culture-parenting-community-and-top-blogs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=7539","title":{"rendered":"5 Friday Faves &#8211; Winter in the Middle East, Culture, Parenting, Community, and Top Blogs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-5122\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5122\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Friday Faves\" width=\"4225\" height=\"2671\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves.jpg 4225w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Blog-Friday-Faves-1024x647.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4225px) 100vw, 4225px\" \/><\/a>Wow! What a week! This is a rare experience for me to be glad it&#8217;s Friday. I usually love all the days and want them to slow down&#8230;this was a week that&#8217;s good to be done. How was your week?<\/p>\n<p>My 5 favorites finds include one less favorite,\u00a0more &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to forget&#8221; &#8211; that being #1:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Winter in Middle East<\/strong> &#8211; Our news cycle and attention spans are so short that we might forget refugee camps&#8230;especially in winter. I am so thankful for agencies (like <a href=\"https:\/\/gobgr.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Baptist Global Response<\/a>) that don&#8217;t forget it. Far from it, they are there, feeling the cold these refugees feel and stretching resources to cover these without homes that keep out the winter. Let&#8217;s not forget&#8230;and extend help as well.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-ibtimes.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7625\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7625\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-ibtimes.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Winter in the Middle east - ibtimes\" width=\"1180\" height=\"787\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-ibtimes.jpg 1180w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-ibtimes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-ibtimes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-ibtimes-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1180px) 100vw, 1180px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ibtimes.co.uk\/middle-east-snow-winter-storms-hit-syria-israel-palestine-lebanon-turkey-1482376\" target=\"_blank\">International\u00a0Business News<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-East-thetakeaway.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7623\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7623\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-East-thetakeaway.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Winter in the Middle East - thetakeaway\" width=\"620\" height=\"372\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-East-thetakeaway.jpg 620w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-East-thetakeaway-300x180.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thetakeaway.org\/story\/syrian-refugees-face-harsh-winter-weather\/\" target=\"_blank\">thetakeaway.org<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-old-man-the-national-ae.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7627\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7627\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-old-man-the-national-ae.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Winter in the Middle east - old man - the national ae\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-old-man-the-national-ae.jpg 640w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Winter-in-the-Middle-east-old-man-the-national-ae-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thenational.ae\/world\/middle-east\/winter-storm-lays-siege-to-refugees-with-nowhere-to-flee\" target=\"_blank\">The National<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Culture<\/strong> &#8211; Trevin Wax writes this week about <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.thegospelcoalition.org\/trevinwax\/2016\/01\/14\/from-stephen-colbert-to-taylor-swift-4-reasons-i-write-cultural-commentary\/?utm_source=TGC+List&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=6e0d50eca9-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&amp;utm_term=0_621531349f-6e0d50eca9-118239845\" target=\"_blank\">cultural commentary<\/a>. As we both live in a changing culture and examine our place within that culture, we adjust. Not our beliefs, necessarily, or our viewpoints, but maybe how we voice them. Trevin does a great job in expounding on how we look at culture &#8211; not as &#8220;good&#8221; or &#8220;bad&#8221; or &#8220;safe&#8221; or &#8220;unsafe&#8221; &#8211; but as understanding and discerning co-inhabitants of that culture. Something called &#8220;cultural literacy&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-Faves-Cultural-Commentary-Trevin-Wax.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7632\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-7632\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-Faves-Cultural-Commentary-Trevin-Wax.jpg\" alt=\"word with dice on white background - culture\" width=\"5079\" height=\"2944\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-Faves-Cultural-Commentary-Trevin-Wax.jpg 5079w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-Faves-Cultural-Commentary-Trevin-Wax-300x174.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-Faves-Cultural-Commentary-Trevin-Wax-768x445.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-Faves-Cultural-Commentary-Trevin-Wax-1024x594.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 5079px) 100vw, 5079px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-dd\">Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.thegospelcoalition.org\/trevinwax\/2016\/01\/14\/from-stephen-colbert-to-taylor-swift-4-reasons-i-write-cultural-commentary\/?utm_source=TGC+List&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=6e0d50eca9-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&amp;utm_term=0_621531349f-6e0d50eca9-118239845\" target=\"_blank\">The Gospel Coalition<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;From Francis Schaeffer in the 1960\u2019s, to C. S. Lewis in the 1940\u2019s, to G. K. Chesterton in the 1920\u2019s, we stand in a long line of people who have identified the narratives on display in cultural artifacts of their day, and then spoke to those longings by putting them in light of the gospel. John Stott called this \u201cdouble listening\u201d \u2013 listening to God\u2019s Word and to the people in God\u2019s world, so that we can be effective witnesses to the kingdom.&#8221; &#8211; Trevin Wax<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Parenting<\/strong> &#8211; Parenting books and blogs abound to influence our journey through our children&#8217;s growing-up. One of my favorite books on parenting came\u00a0out after our kids were already grown but I love it and still recommend it:<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><span id=\"productTitle\" class=\"a-size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0345507894?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=0345507894&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;tag=debmillswrite-20\" target=\"_blank\">Escaping the Endless Adolescence: How We Can Help Our Teenagers Grow Up Before They Grow Old<\/a> by Joseph &amp; Claudia Worrell Allen. Cathy Gulli&#8217;s article on parenting was a fascinating discovery for me this week. She writes on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.macleans.ca\/society\/the-collapse-of-parenting-why-its-time-for-parents-to-grow-up\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Collapse of Parenting &#8211; Why It&#8217;s Time for Parents to Grow Up<\/a>. Her take on current trends in parenting focuses less on empowering the child and more on the parent actually being the guide, mentor, and nurturing authority. I didn&#8217;t agree with everything, but it was refreshing to read. [It actually went <a href=\"http:\/\/www.macleans.ca\/society\/video-readers-respond-to-the-collapse-of-parenting\/\" target=\"_blank\">viral<\/a> with over a million reads so far.] The image below is NOT from her article but it came to mind because of her article.<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Age-appropriate-tasks-for-children.png\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7629\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-7629\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Age-appropriate-tasks-for-children.png\" alt=\"Blog - Age-appropriate tasks for children\" width=\"472\" height=\"605\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Age-appropriate-tasks-for-children.png 640w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Age-appropriate-tasks-for-children-234x300.png 234w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 472px) 100vw, 472px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/\" target=\"_blank\"><u><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\">Flanders Family<\/span><\/u><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Community &#8211; <\/strong>I&#8217;ve written about community many times, but this was one of those weeks where the value of community came to bear in a hard place. It&#8217;s hard to imagine those who lead more solitary lives &#8211; without church, family, or work community &#8211; especially when a life-altering crisis occurs. Luke writes about the early church so beautifully in his <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Acts_of_the_Apostles\" target=\"_blank\">Acts of the Apostles<\/a>. Those early believers endured great persecution with joy because of God-infused community. What&#8217;s your experience of community these days? Showing up for work, attending church, social media brushes with family don&#8217;t get us to community. It&#8217;s a dig deep, being there, full embrace of those in your circle with a door wide open to others just on the outside, looking in. So thankful this week for community.<a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Community-It-Is-Well-Beth-Taylor-Facebook.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7620\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7620\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Community-It-Is-Well-Beth-Taylor-Facebook.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Community - It Is Well - Beth Taylor Facebook\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Community-It-Is-Well-Beth-Taylor-Facebook.jpg 640w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Community-It-Is-Well-Beth-Taylor-Facebook-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Community-It-Is-Well-Beth-Taylor-Facebook-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a>Photo Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/photo.php?fbid=10156490986655061&amp;set=a.10153689822770061.1073741829.703480060&amp;type=3&amp;theater&amp;notif_t=like_tagged\" target=\"_blank\">Beth Taylor<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Top Blogs<\/strong> &#8211; There are all sorts of lists on the blogosphere these days about most read\/visited blogs of\u00a0last year. <a href=\"https:\/\/llf.squarespace.com\/blog\/2016\/1\/2\/the-top-five-most-read-and-most-shared-posts-of-2015\" target=\"_blank\">This list<\/a> by Leslie Leyland Fields is my favorite find\u00a0of this sort this week.\u00a0\u00a0What a life this woman leads in the coastal fishing communities of Alaska! <a href=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-faves-Leslie-Leyland-Fields.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7637\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7637\" src=\"http:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-faves-Leslie-Leyland-Fields.jpg\" alt=\"Blog - Friday faves - Leslie Leyland Fields\" width=\"1000\" height=\"607\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-faves-Leslie-Leyland-Fields.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-faves-Leslie-Leyland-Fields-300x182.jpg 300w, https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Blog-Friday-faves-Leslie-Leyland-Fields-768x466.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a>What lists do you recommend? Help us find them,\u00a0via the comments below.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bonus: <\/strong>Sweet Dance Performance by the Revere Dance Studio &#8211; Lovely Girls on Their Feet and in Their Wheelchairs<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"WOW -Wonders on Wheels 2016\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/AI3Lc9NB0Jo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wow! What a week! This is a rare experience for me to be glad it&#8217;s Friday. I usually love all the days and want them to slow down&#8230;this was a week that&#8217;s good to be done. How was your week? My 5 favorites finds include one less favorite,\u00a0more &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to forget&#8221; &#8211; that &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/?p=7539\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">5 Friday Faves &#8211; Winter in the Middle East, Culture, Parenting, Community, and Top Blogs<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[810,2341,799,1704,2126,1705,183,2340,147,1801,1435,33,1732,2611,870,31,761,991],"tags":[449,2702,2704,658,190,2701,1819,2628,445,594,2006,2703,2346,1031,780],"class_list":["post-7539","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-good-gifts","category-baptist-global-response","category-church-2","category-communication","category-community","category-conversations","category-culture-religion","category-displaced-peoples","category-family-2","category-friday-faves","category-growing-up","category-inspired","category-leadership","category-love-your-neighbor","category-neighbors","category-parenting","category-redeeming-restoring","category-writing","tag-baptist-global-response","tag-blogs","tag-cathy-gulli","tag-church","tag-community","tag-cultural-commentary","tag-culture","tag-leslie-leyland-fields","tag-middle-east","tag-parenting-2","tag-refugees","tag-revere-dance-studio","tag-syrian-refugees","tag-trevin-wax","tag-winter"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pauPAB-1XB","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7539","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7539"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7539\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7641,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7539\/revisions\/7641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7539"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7539"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debmillswriter.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7539"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}